Question by ★TouchedByAnAtheist★: Best way to tell friend her boyfriend is not welcome? And what is the best way to politely kick someone out?
Ok so I have a friend we will call CANDY. She came over with her boyfriend john. Candy lives right accross the street from me.
We had a get together at my house and 1 am came my husband went to sleep everybody left with the exception of my friend who is too drunk to drive her and her riding buddy spent the night here. Candy and john wouldn’t leave I asked them nicely, “well what are you guys gonna do cuz I have to lock my gates”(I live in very ghetto neighborhood) They were like well.., “go to sleep we’ll just chill” Like no you can’t chill, I didn’t tell them that yet but here is the rest of the story.

Candy and john told me that they went to someone else’s house, the owners passed out so they proceed to steal from them. So no even though I trust candy somewhat, I don’t trust john and I”m not comfortable with them “HANGING OUT” AWAKe drinking at my house when my lil ones are in their bedroom. I heard john telll candy that, “babe there is a ton of beer that homeboy left!” (he was referring to my husbands buddy. I went to lie down and I hear them going in and out, so I said Ok I just can’t be nice and there is no nice wayto say this so **** it they have to go.

I went outside and told them , “I don’t mean to sound like a total ****** but you guys can’t chill here you have to go” Candy says well we’ll just stay here outside (I have outdorr furniture and a gazebo) cuz there is no room inside” I was thinking , “DUH! I’m asking you to leave can’t you take a hint?!” So anyway candy got a really nasty attitude almost knocked me over and left took john and then proceeded to argue with him in front of my house.. I locked my gates and finally went to sleep… she still has the audacity to tell one of my friend that she’s not sure why I asked them to leave??? I’m gonna see here obviously so how do I explain to her that drinking to 6 inAM is NOT acceptable in my home? I just don’t understand how people don’t get it@!
11 hours ago

Best answer:

Answer by Tiffany
just tell him to leave and he’s not welcome in your crib.

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