He thinks it is o.k to go hang out with girls(friends) without me I don’t like it. He says this is who he is and I need to trust him and that I am not always going to be invited to the party. I need to trust him because at the end of the day he is coming home to me.
i think you are over reacting. Get more confident…. who cares if he hangs with other girls… its a friend. You should believe him til he gives you a reason not to.
Wake up!!!!! Smell the roses!!!!—-or the skunk rather. He’s so obviously cheating. Move on and kick him to the curb. Find a nice, attractive male, spend time with him with out your boyfriend, and when he gets mad, toss his excuses back at him, see how he likes it.
He wouldn’t come home to me. I would tell him to find a new home.
he’s acting like a jerk…sorry.
if he really liked you he would take you along.
don’t you think.
this may be a sign that he is hiding something from
you.
then again . . . we both might be over-reacting.
tell him what you feel.;
just trust him… if he tell you that you should listen. i for once experienced this. i didnt like my gf going clubbing at night (coz we are in a long distance relationship) and this caused alot of problem until i trusted her. she said she would always come back to me and she did.
so just trust him ok? =)
depends what you are willing to accept. don’t count on him changing. i would not go for this, but some girls would. its your decision, he’s made his.
Wants part of his life to be secret and not willing to invite you. This is not a committed relationship. Tell him to take a permanent hike.
Go with your gut. It doesn’t matter what we think of your man having “girl” friends. Why wouldn’t he want you to be a part of that friendship? Why stay in a relationship where there isn’t trust? He isn’t going to change, so how much of your life do you want to waste worrying about somebody you don’t trust?
you know.. sometimes people just want to get away from their day-to-day sh1t and be with other people.
sometimes I feel like I could kill my boyfriend and love going to a friend’s house to just chill with them.
I agree that you should trust him (most important part of a relationship) but he should care about you enough to understand why you are upset — without him getting all flippant with your feelings.
I think if it were the other way around he would feel the same way…
it sucks when you can’t come with him (I have been in the same situation.. i used to stay home and feel lonely or like I was some sort of social retard or something — over-analyzing the situation and everything.)
just chill and start hanging out with *your* friends and b|tch to them about it! it will make you feel better. =)
oh.. and enjoy the time apart… it only make it better when you get to be alone again!