Question by Alexandra G: Boyfriend pretends he doesn’t see me while in his car driving?
Interesting scenerio, I’ve been seeing this man for over a year, we’re both in our second relationships after divorce. I just spent Sat. nite with him and spok to him last night we live in adjacent towns. While driving my daughter to school today, I took a left onto to the school road and he was at that “stop” waiting to take a left on the road I was traveling on. Normally when you’re at that stop in this small town you just look up and wait for clearance, as approached the car to take “my Left” he looked then leaned over to “talk to his son” in the front seat avoiding me completely…what’s up with that, I was shocked..why would someone do this, or am I making too much of this?
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Answer by BreatheLove
If it was one incident, I wouldn’t worry about it. Maybe it wasn’t anything at all, he actually didn’t see you. Or maybe he feels uncomfortable because your kids are present and you haven’t reached that point in your relationship yet after your divorces to make it known to your kids that you’re in a relationship with someone else? I would say if it happens again, talk to him about it. Until then, give him the benefit of the doubt and don’t let it get you down. <3
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I think you are making too much of nothing. Please do not over think things, it tends to rip apart some relationships. Perhaps he was stressed and his son asked him something important so he just leaned to talk to him.
I would be more concerned to how is my date around me and how does my date make me feel, than make a big thing out of the situations that could have been a total accident.
I hope this helps, if there is indeed some bigger problem or more doubts you have, let us know, but if this was one time thing – do not feed into your paranoia.
I think your making to much out of it, he just probably didn’t see you. Stop worrying about it!
yes, you are being totally irrational and spastastic. maybe he just really didn’t see you.
You answered your own question he didn’t see you because he was talking to his son.