Question by CapnTink13: He ditched me at walmart yesterday, but wants to do something for valentines day…?
My ex boyfriend and i have been thinking about getting together.
I like him so much, and i put up with a lot of his crap.
But today i am so pissed.
yesterday him and my two guy friends and I were at the store, and he said he had to leave to beat his mom home ( so he could get the flowers in w/o her seeing)
We weren’t done getting the other two guys stuff, so we told him just to wait.
But then he just disappeared.
so i texted him asking if he went home,
he said “yes, you all wouldn’t listen to me so i just left.”
all my stuff was in his car, so i was like i’m just stopping by and picking up my stuff.
he was like
“well you all could have come over but since nobody cares, i say fuck you all”
so that’s where it left off.
Then this morning he text’s “happy valentines day, u gunna be home today?”
I’m so confused! should i be mad at him, or should iunderstand he had to go home.
i love him so much, and i hate him too.
so what should i text back??? what should i do?? what would you do???
i need an answer asap
he didn’t apologize…
i don’t think he really though it was a big deal…
but i guess for me it was…
was it?
Best answer:
Answer by Crisriano R
Probably he wanted attention then today realized how much he misses you. Did he even say sorry?
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hes playing games with u so tell him to stop
say he shud have got the flowers earlier and u WERENT finsihed shoppin
BUT
he wanted to get his mum the flowers so that understandable i mean she’s the other women in his life lol
because he got his way he isnt dwelling over it like u so dont ruin valentines day so speak to him the next day (tomoz)
xx
If you love a guy and hate him to, thats love.LOL!!!
He was just a little pissed, he tried to tell you what his plan was…i would have let him go and just got my stuff out of the car. The fact that he texted ya tell me he is not mad at you and wants to spend V-day with ya. I mean c’mon, he just wanted to do something special for his mother…thats the other woman in his life. So my advice is just call him and tell him i wil come over. You don’t wanna be having a fight on the day of love.
I hope this helps and happy v-day
Personally I wouldn’t have anything to do with anyone who treats me and talks to me like that, male or female. They’d be history. He sounds really immature and idiotic.
I think that you should hang out with him today for valentines day but don’t mention what happened yesterday. If he brings it up then discuss it with him calmly.
You two need to put some distance between you to and get some perspective of what the problem in this relationship is. You both don’t communicate on a level that offers a give and take in your relationship.
You have to let him know that you are not one of those girls he can talk like crap to. Let him know that he can’t talk to you that way and then when he apologizes you can say you should have understood why he left at walmart.
Answer his text and make sure you see him today so you two have a chance to talk things trough.
Hope I helped!
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