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Question by carrie12: How come we became strangers?
Hi everyone,
here’s my “problem”: i havent stopped thinking about my best friend whom i havent seen in 5 years.
he went off with a gay guy 5 years ago, a guy older than he who had money, a tv job,etc..he “left” me without explanation from the day to the next.
basically we’ve been friends from when we were 12 til 20. Then he met this guy while i was away abroard and he fell in love with him wich is why he cut himself off everyone else.
At the start i thought it was a phase he was going through but now it’s been 5 years.
he used to come and visit me while i was away and he his boyfriend was extremly jealous of me.
anyways, 5 years went by and i’ve heard he’s still with him.
Last year i sent a vicious email to him about the love of his life, it’s a list where you put 3 names of people you love the most and you get all the answers in your inbox,and i was second on his list, right after his boyfriend.
anyways i have moved on, have a boyfriend my self but still i can’t forget
sorry i didnt have enough caracters to write the rest.
anyways, do you thnk it’s normal i still think of him?
why did he leave “me” like that?
why does he write me on his list as the love of his life, well the second love of his life and then never writes to me again?
thansk a lot.
i precise something: HE WAS NOT MY BOYFRIEND HE WAS MY BEST FRIEND.
thansk a lot for sharing your thoughts of love with me i feel so horrible to still think of him so much when i never get to see him, i feel like an idiot.
i need support.
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Best answer:

Answer by ~mala~
First of all get over it..”IF” he is your best friend u should be happy for him not sending a vicious email just shows your immaturity level at that point..my best friend remains my best friend because when he saw that I had a g/f he would occupy his time with other people and we would hang out on several occassions he didn’t like my g/f but he respected me and acted civil around her she knew he didn’t like her but she never heard him say so and he never acted so in front of her..i respect my friend so much for that..my g/f and i broke up but my best friend was always there so when she was out of the picture it was fun catching up with my friend all over again..i saw he was my friend because he cared about how i felt before his own selfishness of being my ONLY best friend..my g/f at the time wanted that title so i gave it to her but my best friend knew he was always number one so yrs after me and g/f broke up my best friend with all his craziness is still my best friend through it all..so don’t just put the blame on your friend..your actions could of resulted in your friend choosing to stay away from you because it was too much drama to keep you in his life..i hope one day you will appologize if your frienship means that much to you and god willing he will accpet your apology and try to rekindle your friendship again..

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