He left me a week after I told him I was pregnate. And around the same time i told him this girl kept on coming around and talking to him. He left me because I wouldn't get an abortion and that he couldn't handle my situation. the day after he left he started going out with this girl that kept on coming around. He said that he didn't want to be involved with the baby while I was pregnate because he didn't want it but he said once the baby is born I want it and I don't want you to have it. I need Your Help.
As much as you think you want to get revenge on him – don’t. My ex-husband left me when I was 3 months pregnant. I NEVER said anything unkind about him in front of her. Now she is 24 years old & doesn’t want anything to do with him. She can’t stand him as a person & she formed this opinion ENTIRELY on her own. It has hurt him terribly that his daughter won’t speak to him so essentially I got my “revenge” but I didn’t have to do a thing. His time will come – be patient! Good luck to you.
File rape charges.
He is a dummy and he can’t have it cause you guys are not married you get custody.. The best way is to ignore him and find you someone else. You don’t have to go with the other guy just let him see you with someone else that cares for you and he will go crazy. When he starts asking you questions just tell him it is none of his business and that you had to find a REAL man for you and your baby. This will drive him crazy cause no man wants another man being a dad to their child. If that doesn’t work then he never cared for you and you should just move on.
get him with child support also, i reallyhope you didnt give the baby his last name, i had that problem with my little girl, when i was 5 months pregnant i found out that her daddy cheated on me and got another girl pregnant! i was furious, i left him and never looked back! now she is happy and has my last name and that a**hole is paying out the *** in child support!
A: child support
B: make up flyers warning other females of his “herpe” problem haha
C: Get $100 dollar bills and write “for good head call” ( put his #)
go spend those dollars on baby stuff
D: Tell the girl you left him because he has genital warts and you didnt want them to!
E: call his mom and ask her what to do, explain the situation and then go on to tell her that you have stuck by him even though he has hit you in the past (that should piss her off)
F: ask the girl if she knew you were husband and wife? (just to piss her off)
i will add more when i get some more ideas!
Please give this baby up for adoption to someone who is mature enough to know that revenge is a pathetic response to having created a baby with no father and no mom with the sense to make a nest first for her baby before creating it.
You are not in any way ready to have a baby – it’s your baby who needs help now. help getting into a normal, two parent family where it can get human milk on demand and a stay-home mommy.
Hit him with child support!
1. sue him for child support
2. sue for full custody, so if he runs off with the baby, he’ll go to jail for kidnapping
3. Find a great husband.
The best revenge is to have healthy baby and a lovely life.
The Greatest Revenge Against Such Ex’s (and beleive me I Know)
Have a Happy Life , Refuse to include him , and hit him w/ child support.
Being Happier without him will piss him off the most and benifit you and your child best.
Your kid dosnt need a father of that type and YOU desreve more respect than that.
RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST AND FOREMOST.
Krystal, I wish you and the baby the best of luck, and I agree, get child support as it is your right. Please don’t use your baby as a tool to get back at this guy. Since you’ve decided to go ahead and have this child, focus on his/her well-being instead.
By the way, it’s spelled “pregnant”.
First, It is 100% your decision to keep the baby or not. I do not mean so be judgemental, but you both sound young. Or, at least your ex-boyfriends maturity level is at an all time low. Look, this is a serious, scary situation for some and most people. He is obviously feeling like he is in no place in his life for a child, and you for whatever reason, feel like you need to keep the child, or want to? It is still your choice. Just make sure of one thing, no matter what, this child you are about to bring into this world doesn’t deserve to be in the middle of any confrontation at all. He or she should now be the most important thing to you, not your ex-boyfriend. In the long run, he will pay for it more. Just make good choices and forget about getting him or this girl back, it will not help your situation, or make him come back. He is obviously a immature jerk, and you are not.
what ever u do dont let him take UR baby and dont let him c the baby and hit him eith child support
First, he is trying to scare you into having an abortion. He can’t just take the baby away from you.
Revenge = CHILD SUSPORT !!!
He help make the baby the law says he has to help susport the baby until it’s 18 or graduates high school which ever comes last.
Thank whatever god you might worship that he’s gone , this type of male will always cheat & probably be abusive and/or dominating for the durration of any relationship.
Good girl for standing up for your right to do with your body has you choose
Yes, by all means use this child to exact revenge on the idiot who impregnated you. Be sure to instill all of your bitterness and hatred into the child as you raise him or her. That way, you will ensure that all three of you will have bitter, meaningless lives. What a wonderful mother you are sure to be!
On second thought, why don’t you give the poor kid a break and put it up for adoption? It’s misfortune is that it has parents like you and the idiot.
YOU LEARN HOW TO SPELL!!! that will teach him!
child support!!!
princess just forget about your baby father. he is jerk and a coward for not wanting your baby.. just move on and keep your baby!! here my email address if you need a friend or a guy that know how to treat a girl right!!! efrain78223@yahoo.com
First of all, you are pregnant? not pregnate? Secondly, you will be the mother once the child is born – he cannot have IT – IT, the child should probably be put up for adoption UNLESS you can
handle being a single mom. Do you have a job? Will you have
health care? You really need help, but not from us – you need
to seek advice from Planned Parenthood, or another organization.
Good luck.
im a dude for reference.. I believe that this guy is a dick head and really needs to get something injected into his dick or something of value secretly spray painted.. like.. his car.. or smeere something really gooopy all over it. jst make sure he doesnt know its you : /
Or what they said…. P.S. Cassandra is a loser, bigot! : )
Don’t feel bad. My husband hit me with divorce papers when he found out i was pregnante.
First, get him for child support. Second, don’t let him part of the childs life. If he isn’t willing to be there for you when you need him the most, he isn’t going be there for your child.
He is immature. He only wants to good in having kids. Not the icky pregger stuff that happens first.
And to really get his goose, find a real man and kindly let him know that your child will be calling this man Daddy, not him.
Child support. It will haunt him for the next 18 years!
Child Support. If he doesn’t want to be involved let him go, you are probably better off without him and so is your baby. it is unfortunate though
CHILD SUPPORT…………….
GET OVER IT
Hit him with the child support is a free services from the government. It will stay on his credit report for the next 18 years. Don’t let him come anywhere near you or your child. And file a restrain order from him and renew it every 5 years. He’s a threaten to your child life. I know some one did this and is the best revenge ever.
Look on the bright side, you will have a wonderful child coming on the way, it will be a such reward feeling and maybe is the best thing ever happen to you. Think of him as sperm bank. Trust me, once when you have your child, you will forget everything, because having the baby is such a beautiful feeling, you don’t even remember what had happened from the past any more. More importantly, work hard on yourself and your child to have a happy life. Don’t look back….