He wanted to have a child with me and when he found out i was pregnant things were ok at first and now he told me he is done with me and to not text or call him until I have the baby…I dont know what to do… And I dont know why he is doin this to me..
He is doing this because he is immature and an ass. There isnt much you can do but be healthy and happy as possible. You dont need a guy like that anyways and you deserve way better. Focus on a good pregnancy! Good luck girl
He is a worthless man. If he tries to get you pregnant than leaves once you do he is worthless. I wouldn’t even bother with him cause hes not even a man
wtf? this is not a guy you want to raise a kid with. at all. if you still want the baby and think you could raise it alone (i think that’s whats going to end up happening), then keep it. if you cant raise it alone, i would think of adoption, or even abortion. you aren’t too far along.
sorry this happened to you. don’t tell yourself that hes coming back. even if he does come back, does he really seem to you that hes ready to be a father? doesnt sound that way to me.
This is the #1 reason why marriage should come before sex..There is nothing you can do but try and have a healthy pregnancy for your child. Maybe after he has saw the baby he will come around and be the father the baby will need, until then just keep your head up and do the best you can..Best wishes…:)
he sounds very young and immature, if hes not willing to support you, you will need to get some emotional support from someone eles like your mum? trust me you will need it, good luck hope it all works out
I am very, very sorry that is really hard.
First how old is he? Either way he is very immature, and not worth having around. If someone is going to leave you when you are so vulnerable and in a serious adult situation then he is NOT in any way shape or form good for you.
Hopefully he is gonna pay child support without you having to legally force him.
Just be strong, confide in close friends and family….ask for their help. Thats about all you can do.
I say don’t worry about it. its better said then done I have been there two times I have raised my two little girls all by my self like so there father wanted the baby but then he left me i had no were to go or live but I am doing great now he mite just be scared or something else I can’t say but don’t worry he a come a round and hope it wont be to late when to move on all women do for there children i did and many others i know its wats best for your child not him do what ever you have to do for your i do now and always will keep that in mind focus on you and that pregnancy and hope you have a health baby boy or girl if you ever need to talk to somebody talk to god his the only one and help you not man or women.a O yea go on BabyCenter.com that helped me threw my pregnancy both times.
My ex left me after my daughter was 2 months old. This was probably the best thing for me considering it was such an unhealthy relationship. I was devastated at first but realized that my daughter did not need the negativity to be influenced upon her. A lot of men have cold feet when it comes to the responsibilities of a child. But this is in fact his child and he has financial obligations to the baby. After the baby is born you can file for child support. If the father signs the birth certificate and the acknowledgement of paternity, it will give you equal rights as parents. You want to file with the office as soon as possible, because you want to be considered the custodial parent. Meaning that the child resides with you. Try to be as positive as you can, stress is not good for a pregnancy. You will find someone who is more deserving of you and your baby, it will be his loss not yours.
Something similar happened to me, my boyfriend left me at 2 months pregnant after saying he was trying to get me pregnant. He actually called me when I was 6 months along and wanted me to take him back. When I told him no that I deserved better than a boy who would disappear for months at a time he got irate he told me he would see me in court.
I sympathize with you and what you are going through and you are perfectly capable of caring for your baby yourself. Just try not to stress and focus on a healthy happy pregnancy. I don’t know the law where you live but where I live if you are not married the boyfriend will NOT be put on the birth certificate until he proves paternity. If this is the case where you live then you will have plenty of time to find legal assistance to help you file for custody ( which looks better on you if you file first) and file for child support. He wanted the baby so he can help support the baby. Good luck to you and I hope everything turns out for the best.