And there all luvly and in love and having sex and stuff andf i jsut feel left out, im still a virgin, id like a boyfriend but latly i just have no confidence i sitll have braces and it makes me feel really shy talking 2 guys, although they should be off soon..
Any1 else in this situation?
sadly yes. But its been fairly continous for the past 18 years so i can’t really give much advice. Be interesting to see what everyone else comes up with tho. x
Well… No, I’m not in that kind of situation, but I guess it’s okay. Um! Congratulations! Most girls lose it at your age, or… even younger, so… I guess that’s pretty good.
The maturity of us girls come around at different times. Always look at the bright side. Plus… Who are we to know? It’s still better if you have sex with someone you’re sure to be with for the rest of your life, right? I know… It sounds cliche, but it’s a fact! Virginity is the best gift a girl could ever give her husband! So, what I’m saying is – take your time. Don’t worry if your girlfriends are having boyfriends and stuff. That’ll happen to you, too. It’s better to choose someone because you love him than choose him just because you feel left-out. And those braces are nothing. They’re okay! They’ll be off soon, right?
Okay, so… Maybe it’s easier said than felt, but… That’s all I could say ’cause that’s how I feel. Keep confident no matter what…K? =)
There is a very gobby ugly girl in my class (yes I’m at school, I’m 14) and she gets all the boys, I like you have no confidence and hate myself for being the odd one out. You can look like whatever, have confidence (but not in a gobby way
) and get a decent guy! xXx Just don’t turn bitchy!
Speaking from experience, I had my braces through my freshmen year in college and it really does not make that much of a difference to guys. Don’t base your self worth on what your friends are doing or on a relationship status. I know too many people that did that and they either married young and are miserable or they would go through men like water. Your self esteem needs to come from within. It sounds silly, but make a list of your strengths. Things you have done or things that are special about you and use it as a reminder that you are awesome no matter what everyone else is doing. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18, many people regret sleeping with guys just to lose their virginity. They won’t admit it, but those are usually the people that are weakest inside. It takes a strong person to stand alone and confident. Be that person. (and if anyone doesn’t like it-they can bugger off)
You have it made girl!!! If all your friends are attached that leaves any new guys you meet while you are all out and about to you. Don’t be in a hurry to get into a committed relationship and lose your virginity…it comes soon enough. Enjoy life and enjoy being single….it gives you the ability to flirt up a storm and meet all sorts of people. You can go to a club and dance with anyone…you aren’t tied down. Enjoy being you and you’ll be surprised…a boyfriend will come.
there’s no need to rush things dear. you’ll find the rgiht one at the right time. you might feel like that now, and if you rush into things, you might regret it. take things slowly, live for the moment.
You could always look to the apple theory…
Girls are like apples. The most beautiful, perfect ones are at the top, and the ugly, rotten ones are the bottom. Boys go for the rotten ones because they’re easier to get, and are afraid to go for the more perfect ones because they’re afraid they might fall. All it takes is one brave boy to climb up and grab one.
Probably,u are still in school i’ll advise u2 focus in your education cus of your future n those relationships are very distracting.
As u wish to,u can have one rather than burning inwardly but let such one be d type that is not interested in sex as ultimate in relationship,cus this is where danger lies.They are always few,out of 20 you’ll get one.A true friend would not mind whether there is sex or not.
Next, be properly educated about love and sex at least by your parent or trusted close relations.Do all your best to let d guy understand that u value the relationship more than sex,any of them who call it off doesn’t have true n good intention.So remain yourself and maintain the virginity.God will reward u,your people will be proud.I’m a guy telling u this,a true boy friend would not mount pressure 4love making, OK?bye.