Question by Zombieeeee!: Is my new boyfriend a control freak?
I just starting dating this new guy for about 3 days now.
His behavior is starting to make me uncomfortable.
For example last saturday(halloween), me and him were hanging out at his house and it was kinda blah. So I offered the idea of us going to one of my male co-worker’s halloween party because he had invited me earlier at work.The halloween party was supposed to be with alot of people just having fun you know?
And then he got all mad and shit and started accusing me of trying to ditch him to hang out alone with my co-worker.
And I tryed to explain to him that it wasn’t like that.
And then he told me to shut up before he “gets angry to the point where he blacks out.”
And I then after that, I just dropped it because he started to give me the silent treatment.
So anywho, my mom called me to go home so I started to leave his place and then he told me right before I left,”If you go to that party, I’ll never talk to you again.”
And i agreed I wouldn’t go because I had to go home anyways.
So I left and before I went home, I went to Mcdonald’s to get something to eat.
Well when I got home, my mom told me that he called looking for me.
I thought that was really odd, so I called him back to see what’s up but everytime I called he fjust kept forwarded my calls.
I think he’s mad at me.
I think he has anger issues as well.
And sometimes I feel like he’s always investigating my whereabouts.
We’ve only been dating for a week and I’m a bit confused because I’m wondering if this is how it’s always gonna be…
Best answer:
Answer by We Be Steady Mobbin’
holy crap yes!
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It sounds to me as though he is a bit of a control freak. Maybe his past relationships did not end so well, and he has trust issues. IF i were you I would let him know entirely how he makes you feel when he acts like that. Just tell him the truth. Tell him he’s overbearing, and he needs to trust you.
Can you accept him for who he is? Just ask yourself that and think about the first thing that comes into your mind. If its already bad after three days honey i would honestly get the hell out of it. If he thinks for a second he can control you in the beginning its just less respect for your time here on out. THere is no other way. Unless he really wants to change for you after you tell him how you feel. I don’t think you should waste your time on telling him how you feel because i think he just views all woman as possessions. His loss.
People are usually on their best behavior when they first start ating so for him to act this crazy is well,… crazy. It will only get worse. RUN
he is insecure