ok my boyfriend dont like when i talk to my ex’s because he thinks something is gonna happen… my ex boyfriend left me a voice mail asking me who was i dating and he wanted me back but i didnt never reply to his message because i knew if i called my ex that would create even more drama. i need someone’s advice
call your boyfriends ex and bitch her out.
First of all shawty when you in a relationship you shouldn’t even be talking to your ex( he’s an ex). How would you like it if your boyfriend talks to his ex like you do knowing that she know things about him how to turn him on what to say to him to make him feel good. You might not be over your ex. You might not want to talk to your ex before you end up ALONE!!!!
your bf is a douche
does he even know you didnt call him back?
your exes can do whatever
it’s not your problem
what matters is how you react to it
if your bf dont understand that
then he’s a jealous bag of doucheness
All you can do is tell your BF the truth, point out that your with him and not your ex. If he doesn’t calm down simply ask him what solution he can think of other then deleting the VM when you have a chance. Theres no solution because while you could block your ex he could still use a friends phone… you could change your number but you probably still have a couple mutual friends and word will get out somewhere. And dropping off the face of the earth doesn’t help either.
Why is your bf listening to your vm? That’s not his business that’s what you should be angry at.
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As strange as it sounds just be the bigger person and let it go. The only reason that he called his ex is because he cares about you and got jealous that the other guy is still in the pic. Some people have a weird way of showing things.
the score sounds even to me.
Now you BOTH need to grow up
call your boyfriend and tell him that nothing bad will happen if u vm ur ex, then tell him the only way u will forgive him is if he let’s u talk or vm ur ex. becuase he needs to trust you.
U 2 palying the jeleousy game.. this relatonship was never meant to last.. u gona have another x soon,, might as well just dump him now.. waste of time to keep playing silly games
First of all he should have never listened to your VM. So that’s his fault. When you go snooping you sometimes can get your feelings hurt. Also it might be a good idea to firmly tell your ex you no longer want to have anything to do with him. Especially when you’re trying to firmly establish a new relationship. Unless you guys have children together there should be no contact whatsoever. It just helps things in the new relationship progress much more smoothly. You got some serious trust issues now and it’s gonna take some work to resolve them. You have to reassure him that you do care for him and aren’t interested in your ex or anyone else and he has to reassure you that he will not be invading your privacy.
I believe that this could of been avoided! He’s your X for a reason.He’s your past and the other your present and your future.Have you ever told your boyfriend you have moved on and he should do the same? Or maybe in some twisted way you secretly want him back and you are just using this guy to make him jealous? How would you feel if your boyfriend keeps getting vm from his X ? You are making your boyfriend insecure.Then To be fair I also have to say he should respect your privacy and go into your phone and stuff. You were also careless in not erasing it unless as I said you wanted to make him jealous!