Question by Kdog: My Friend ignores me… Why? ?
I’ve only known this friend for 2 years but I feel like she’s my sister. Last year she was kinda equaly share me and her friend (let’s call her, my friends friend, C and my friendK) ok so K used to sit by me in LA then C started talking and being loud and made us sit in alphabetical order, NOW K sits by C and I sit by peope I hate. I feel all alone becuz the only time I talk to her is lunch. And I bet 29 bucks that if C was in our lunch period I would be the third wheel. C doesn’t really know me so she doesn’t share alot of secrets with me so when her and K talk about Max, C’s boyfriend/Crush idk, treat me like a third wheel.
My problem is K text me and said ” that’s for leaving me” earlyer in the day I had left straight after school becuz C takes a long time at her locker and wobt hurry up. Plus my mom kept texting me to hurry up. I replied ” Im sorry, I just figured u had a friend to walk with, so I left. ”
k- well that’s rude’
me- well u treat me like a third wheel
and we just kept arguing. At that point u broke down into tears and thought it was all Better when I apologized. But the problem is she didn’t apologize to me, even though I made it PERFECTLy clear that it was BOTH out faults for the fight. (and that bitch C) she started doing the sane thing again, so I started talking with my other friend while she’s around me. Did I make the right descion? What do I do about this without loosing my favorite friend? How do I tell her how I’m feeling without embarrising myself.? Is there a way for me to say if ur goin to ignore me when ur around C, then I’m not walking with u with out starting a fight? I would ask my mom this but she LOVES my friend more than me and would probably be on her team. I asked my other friend but she just didn’t get it. I NEED NEED SERIOUS HELP!!
Best answer:
Answer by Victoria
just straight out tell your friend what you think. and make sure to let K know that you don’t want to lose her [: good luck!
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I would just stop hanging around K and C and move on.
If you dont want to lose K as your friend then set her straight and explain the sitation the truth from the beginning and how you dont want to lose her. When you tell K how you feel dont laugh and be honest and strong minded without embarrasing yourself. Do not tell your friend about your problem, since you never know when a friend will be your enemy, learned this the hard way becareful! Always trust family they may disagree but they will never be an enemy and befriend your ex-friend. Goodluck hope my advice helped and try to answer my friend question!!
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