Question by Biracial Barbie: PLEASE read I am devistated and I don’t know what to do/think. ಥ_ಥ?
Ok so I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 and a half months now.He left for college in August and we get to see each other every 2-3 weeks.I have been counting down the Thanksgiving break he would have,which he was off Wednesday through Friday including the weekend.I am usually the one who picks him up from college(3 hours away) but this time his sister got him.I was SO excited to see him for the break..I waited..and waited I was hoping to see him Wed..nothing although I did talk to him that night on the phone,he wanted to come see me but his dad wanted him home(his parents(well dad and STEP mom) are going through a separation) and he said he would try to make it Thursday.I called him that morning he said he had some cooking to do then he would be over after he finished cooking and stuff.I waited and waited.He never showed up.I called him the next morning and he said he was just getting ready to come over but he had to get dressed and eat something for breakfast then he would be over.About an hour and a half later he did come by.He usually spends the night with me but not that night.He stayed until 8 and his dad came and got him.He said he had to babysit tomorrow.I told him right before he left “Will I get to see you tomorrow?” he said “Hopefully.call me tomorrow” and i asked “Any certain time?” he said “Umm i’m not sure what time I will be up.” I said “ok I will call.” Now on Saturday,I called 4 times once at 11 once at 12 once at 1 and again at 2..then I gave up.Nobody answered.This morning,I got up went to church was all eager to see him once more before he left to go back to school today.I get home and his dad is on Facebook and I tell him..”Hey Allen,I was wondering what time y’all were gonna take David back to Baylor today.I am hoping to see him one last time before he leaves today.Hope everything is going better for you” and he tells me “his sister came and got him this morning sweety and his biological mother came to see him .” I haven’t stopped crying yet.I got to see him 6 hours this week.6 HOURS.After being away from him for 6 weeks and I am REALLY upset.I thought he would swing by to tell me goodbye or something but he didn’t.I don’t know what to think.Now I won’t get to see him for 2 and a half weeks.Till he is off for Christmas break.I am just so saddened by this.6 hours.His parents cannot afford much at all and his phone has been off for weeks now so all we have is Facebook.But I am lucky to even catch him online cause he is busy with school and everything.I just don’t know what to do.The part that just tears me up is him not even telling me goodbye or coming by and telling me bye.Should he apologize for this?
any questions ..please ask. ಥ_ಥ
He was so excited to see me for the break,he would write on his Facebook status
“I cannot wait to go home and see my baby for Thanksgiving break.” but this was written before his parents got into this fight..
He was at college when he heard about his parents.
Best answer:
Answer by Jw
calm the hell down and stop calling so much!
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bury a violated gnome and scrape teeth
I think the next time you get to talk to him or see him, confront him on this, it could be 1 of 2 things.
1) His parents separating may be upsetting him and he feels what with this going on he can’t concentrate on you as much as he’d like, plus school, plus his parents breaking up, and feels pressured.
OR
2) He may not be as invested in the relationship as you are, and may be trying to break away from you, but in a really bad way, like ignoring you.
I really hope it’s the first hun, but I’ve had that experience, going out with a guy for 6 months then one day he disappears and you cannot get hold of him only for him to dump your ass over msn….but I hope it isn’t the case for you. He NEEDS to be straightforward with you, tell him you need to know what’s going on, that you don’t like being messed around like this as it’s worrying you. Good luck hun xXx
Seems like he has a lot of crap to deal with right now.
Shut up.
you should definately talk to him about this. he needs to know that you feel this way. if he didnt have enough time to just stop by at your house, or atleast pick up your phone calls then maybe he isnt worth it. but if he is then talk to him about it:)
i believe he should apologize for this he should have spent at least one night with you and he should have said good bye before returning to colloege. and i am sorry your upset everything will be ok