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Question by William F: Change for the worse?
I’m not sure what it is anymore with my boyfriend… Ever since I can remember (3 weeks back) things have changed in a bad way. I don’t know if he’s seeing someone else or if he’s just losing interest in me. Texts and calls have become less frequent, we barely see each other, and I don’t even think he makes an effort to even try to see me either.
I haven’t seen him for 5 days now, and when I did, he came over for an hour, got a text message from his mom I suppose, and said he had to go move furniture (their moving). I told him before he left “see you in a year,” but I was being serious because it’s like that all the time now.
I think he’s more interested in hanging out with his friends more than me also. I text him, and it takes him forever to text back. I call him, and sometimes he doesn’t even pick up anymore, or just makes an excuse why he didn’t. I don’t know what to do anymore .
I asked his brother where he was last night, but he said he wasn’t at home. So, I’m pretty sure he didn’t want to hang out with me, even though we both had the day off.
Before we started dating (we been dating for 6 months now) and a few months after, he would always hang out with me. Ever since his friend has moved in with his girlfriend (the guy is his bestfriend and the girl is his good friend) he’s been hanging around them more. I know that’s normal, but he doesn’t even bother to talk to me anymore.

Best answer:

Answer by Phil L
How long have you two been together? How serious is the relationship?

Sometimes people just need a bit of time to work things out and can’t do it when they are around certain people. It’s a sad but true part of life.

You said his family was moving; maybe that’s been on his mind a lot.

Before this bit of weirdness how often was he hanging out with his friends? Moreover how often was he hanging out with them exclusively?

There are a lot of little things to consider here.

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