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Should I move back home?

Asked by admin on April 24th, 2011 Listed in: Boyfriend Left


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Question by I <3 Alex: Should I move back home?
My sisters all live in Connecticut while I live in Arizona. My brother lives here with me but he is about to move in 2.5 weeks, he wants me to move with him. I asked my boyfriend what he thinks and after a little while he told me I should move back with my family, that i’ll be happier there. I’m so confused right now, and I don’t understand why he would say that he wants me to move back. I asked him what would happen between us and all he could say was “well with you 2,600 miles away then whats left?” I really don’t want to leave him, but it doesn’t seem like he wants me to stay. what should i do?

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  1. Isaac on April 25th, 2011 at 12:28 am:

    Sounds like he’s decided it’s over. Move on.

  2. Heather B on April 25th, 2011 at 1:15 am:

    Go where you feel wanted. Your family is always going to love you and be there for you. You feelings for your boyfriend will eventually fade. Good luck and have a safe move ;)

  3. Rich F on April 25th, 2011 at 1:29 am:

    Do you WANT to move to Connecticut? If so, then move, if not, then stay in Arizona. Are you just thinking about this because your brother asked you to come with him, or do you miss your family? Decide what will make you happy, not other people.

  4. Tulie on April 25th, 2011 at 1:42 am:

    Maybe he’s just being a martyr. Confront him, insist that the two of you sit down and discuss the possible move. If he still encourages you to go, then you might want to do just that. It would be his way of getting an easy out. Sorry … Good luck!

  5. goldenbear733 on April 25th, 2011 at 2:25 am:

    I would say that it sounds like he doesn’t care if you stay or go, unfortunately. You would be better off moving back home with your family and being with people that you KNOW love you and care about you rather than staying in Arizona and staying with someone who you can’t really be too sure how he feels about you. I’m a guy, and honestly, he sounds like he’s almost “encouraging” you to move back home. I think that you’ll be happier with your family, and eventually with someone who would never want you to go away.

  6. ZULU23 on April 25th, 2011 at 2:47 am:

    Move on but you don’t have to go back to Conn. to do that. It’s freaking cold up there anyways. You would be leaving Mexico though so it might be worth it.

  7. susieB13 on April 25th, 2011 at 3:25 am:

    its obvious that he doesnt really care for the relationship if he shows no feelings about u thinking bout moving back with ur family.. Im guessing that it is a sign that its Over, Move On u can definetely find someone better.
    Once u are Gone he will eventually realize what he is missing and most likely by that time u will be happily In Love with someone NEW
    Good Luck and have a safe Move.

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Should I move back home?

Asked by admin on April 24th, 2011 Listed in: Boyfriend Left


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Question by I <3 Alex: Should I move back home?
My sisters all live in Connecticut while I live in Arizona. My brother lives here with me but he is about to move in 2.5 weeks, he wants me to move with him. I asked my boyfriend what he thinks and after a little while he told me I should move back with my family, that i’ll be happier there. I’m so confused right now, and I don’t understand why he would say that he wants me to move back. I asked him what would happen between us and all he could say was “well with you 2,600 miles away then whats left?” I really don’t want to leave him, but it doesn’t seem like he wants me to stay. what should i do?

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  1. Isaac on April 25th, 2011 at 12:22 am:

    Sounds like he’s decided it’s over. Move on.

  2. Heather B on April 25th, 2011 at 1:17 am:

    Go where you feel wanted. Your family is always going to love you and be there for you. You feelings for your boyfriend will eventually fade. Good luck and have a safe move ;)

  3. Rich F on April 25th, 2011 at 1:47 am:

    Do you WANT to move to Connecticut? If so, then move, if not, then stay in Arizona. Are you just thinking about this because your brother asked you to come with him, or do you miss your family? Decide what will make you happy, not other people.

  4. Tulie on April 25th, 2011 at 2:02 am:

    Maybe he’s just being a martyr. Confront him, insist that the two of you sit down and discuss the possible move. If he still encourages you to go, then you might want to do just that. It would be his way of getting an easy out. Sorry … Good luck!

  5. goldenbear733 on April 25th, 2011 at 2:49 am:

    I would say that it sounds like he doesn’t care if you stay or go, unfortunately. You would be better off moving back home with your family and being with people that you KNOW love you and care about you rather than staying in Arizona and staying with someone who you can’t really be too sure how he feels about you. I’m a guy, and honestly, he sounds like he’s almost “encouraging” you to move back home. I think that you’ll be happier with your family, and eventually with someone who would never want you to go away.

  6. ZULU23 on April 25th, 2011 at 2:52 am:

    Move on but you don’t have to go back to Conn. to do that. It’s freaking cold up there anyways. You would be leaving Mexico though so it might be worth it.

  7. susieB13 on April 25th, 2011 at 2:55 am:

    its obvious that he doesnt really care for the relationship if he shows no feelings about u thinking bout moving back with ur family.. Im guessing that it is a sign that its Over, Move On u can definetely find someone better.
    Once u are Gone he will eventually realize what he is missing and most likely by that time u will be happily In Love with someone NEW
    Good Luck and have a safe Move.

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