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Question by raven_blarghh2010: Thinks are complicated. I’m ridiculously confused. Help?
Ok, here it goes.
My boyfriend seems uncaring and kind of selfish. He jokes around about everything and it’s ok sometimes but it seems like he loves to piss me off. I’m also easily irritated so maybe he doesn’t try, it just happens. We’ve been together a little more than three months but I’m moving across the country in September. I tried to break it off to make things less painful for the two of us but he said “let’s just make the most of the time we have left”. (which maybe the only caring thing he’s said to me in the past month) We don’t have sex so I don’t think he’s just using me, but things don’t seem right. I told him that I love him last weekend and he told me that he’s not in love with me at all. It broke my heart but I fought through it. I never know how he feels or if he’s lying. I’m confused. I want to be with him but he stresses me out so much. I don’t know what to do. I need help. Any advice at all will be helpful.
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Best answer:

Answer by candy00apple
I am not sure that you can fall in love in three months. Maybe, maybe not. I am sure that you can THINK you’ve fallen in love. But, your heart is your gold. Would you really give it to someone who treats you like that? It’s precious, so don’t give it away too readily!

Maybe he is treating you like this because it’s his way of expressing pain and fear because you are leaving. Some people make jokes when they are upset. Try talking to him. If it doesn’t help, take back your gold and move on.

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