my boyfriend (5 years) and hs friend and I were having a great time at a festival watching bands, taking photos, beer etc. We decided to go to the comedy tent. All agreed to go. There was not a lot of space to sit but our friend decided to sit on the left. I found a space to the right and my boyfriend chose to stand at the back. We could all see each other . Enjoying the comedy after about 25 minutes we turned around and my boyfriend had gone. Our friend was staying in a hotel and I told him not to worry although he did kindly offer to stick around with me. We tried ringing my boyfriend and he ignored both our calls. It was dark and raining and my boyfriend new that I did not know where his tent was. I had set one of my own tents up earlier because I thought my sister was coming but I got completely lost with the thousands of tents and ended up having to spend it in the St johns ambulance tent, When they rang him he said he was in bed and was reluctant to come out..
Sounds like he was jealous, your mutual friend was a guy….. So Your BF might have been put out by you siting next to your mutual friend rather than you. If after five years he can react that way it is likely he still doesn’t know you that well.
What an absolute scumbag!!!!! He left you and buggered off to do what he wanted and ignored you when you rang him?? I would ditch this loser as it bodes terrible for the future!
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And for the boyfriend (prat) in question…….surely you could have let her know where you were???? Seems odd to me. reckon you went off with some bird *LOL*
What a tw&t! He would not be with me after that. What on earth was he up to and who with would be the question in my mind. To just wander off like that for no reason seems odd.
I hope for your sake he was off his face on booze/drugs. If not, he’s a jerkwad and he’s got to go! Ditch that ******!
what a rat!
Dump him immediately. He obviously does not care two hoots for your safety and well-being and sounds like a selfish git.
well i am the boyfriend in question here,and as usual when us two have a problem, she goes straight to you lot who all feel sorry for her yet have only got her side of the story. so this is what really happened, we were at a festival on the first night of three, i didnt want to spend an hour watchin comedy, i wanted to walk around and see everything, we watched the comedy for 20 mins from outside a full tent, then my friend suggested we go and sit in, my girlfriend said yes, i said no , lets go now, they went in, i stayed for another 5 mins, then left them there. i didnt know she would loose her tent? i went back to mine and fell asleep very drunk. when i got the call from the ambulance people i went straight to get her, i dont see what i did wrong,
He was probably really drunk, cuz he ignored your freind too.
Quick answer: He would no longer be my boyfriend. Period.
OMG… I’m lost for words and the things I want to say about your bf is inappropriate to type out. Are you sure he didn’t hook up with some other chic at the festival??? Even an apology from him won’t be enough. 5 yrs of relationship and he left you stranded by yourself in the dark and in the rain. What’s even worse is he did not want to come out because he was in bed??? Even a FRIEND would be there when you are in need, let alone a boyfriend.
Oh, Honey I’m sorry. That must have been horrible. Now, to answer your question I would be pretty pissed. Or sad, it kinda depends. Tell him how you feel & that you didn’t appreciate him doing what he did. If hes a real jurk, like some guys are, I would suggest you dump him. But on the other hand, if he says hes sorry & I mean really sorry then you could give this guy another shot.
Leave the jirk. But of course I wouldn’t have a boyfriend.
It sounds like he may have been angry about having to stand in the back of the comedy tent?
Or perhaps he drank too much and needed to crash.
Either way, you’re upset about it and feel abandoned. Talk to him about this and resolve it before it goes on and on and then you both blow up about it.
That is awful! I would be saying bye bye to him! You deserve much better.
What a horrible thing he has done to you!DUMP HIM as soon as possible!He’s loser coz heshould stay by your side,spend a nice evening with you and care about you.He just left you without any explanation!Dont waste your time with him.I know it hurts but he isn’t the “right one” for you.Stay strong x x
If my significant other did that then I would be royally ticked off. The first part of him leaving you alone in the comedy tent could have been an accident but, the part about him being reluctant to come get you when they rang him is unbelievable.
I think you seriously need to rethink this relationship. It doesn’t sound like there is much caring going on from his side.
Good luck!
Give him a bollocking & tell him not be that inconsiderate again, but its not enough on its own to split up over.
Well, if he sees it is YOU calling – and he calls himself your boyfriend – i`m afraid you`ll have to do some soulsearching.
This action would indicate you are less important to him than you should be. So, ask yourself – is this REALLY the man i love?
If the roles were reversed – what would you have done?
I would ask why the hell he left me and then broke up with him!!
if he loves you he will come back and y’all will be even stronger together!
Girl, I would’ve turned into one helluva scary person! But, to be honest, I don’t even really know how to answer your Q cos I can’t believe that he actually did that to you!
theres something VERY VERY wrong here….dump him….i know its been five years but u must have noticed some other signs earlier in him….i would say this is a pretty BIG sign to move on….
im in a situation (sorrt of) like yours where my boyfriend makes plans with me on the weekends but on weekdays he just vanishes…i feel so bad about it…i talked to him about it and now i have found a backup …so if something doesnt work out here i always have someone there for me….i would tell u to do the same!
after kicking his sorry a.ss verbally and physically, i’d leave him for a REAL man that stays by his woman.
You have to know that he was not alone….
Move on with your life….
You will be happier….
not meaning to be rude but he sounds a bit of a tw*t, i wouldnt leave my partner on their own all night at a festival no matter how spannered i was!