Question by Ssina E: Why do people have a problem with me sometimes not going out? and assume I have no friends other than them?
I mean…..wtf???

[Bit of background info...i am male 22 yrs old, everyone considers me "hot/attractive", I study at uni full time (usually all day every day during the week, then do some casual work all day on Saturday and all day Sunday)....YES my life is completely loaded hahahah, not much time for anything. So i sometimes am too tired so stay home.]

My friends, usually just certain ones, have said to me things like “pfft…have you EVEN been out since your boyfriend left????” (my bf left 3 months ago to go home, we are on a long distance relationship)

And one of my girl friends knows these 2 other friends I have and she knows that i havent been out with them in quite a while…so she was today like “have you even been going out lately”……and i asked her why she thought that and she said that because I havent been going out with these other 2 people (she might think they are my only other friends I dunno :s)

Most of my friends think i sorta might make up excuses not to go out quite a bit, but cmon that’s understandable cause of how busy I am!!!

I mean ………what is wrong with people????? Do people really have a problem with me not going out that much??? And i swear they talk about it too…i remember another person was thinking I only had 1 friend because I happened to mention that I went shopping with this “1 friend” a couple of times….

Are they bitter that I’m not going out with THEM??? Why do these friends have so many problems with me like this…

Thanks heaps in advance…life saver )

Best answer:

Answer by JessMc
There us nothing wrong with not going out when you don’t feel like it.
How selfish that they don’t care about you. Like your going have fun if they force you to do something you don’t want to. Call the shots with your life so ppl know your in control not them. You show ppl how to treat u by the way u react

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