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Problem by : My boyfriend left town with out telling me?
Me and my boyfriend have been jointly for a while but he nonetheless will not explain to me alot of issues . I will not know his plan we scarcely discuss now. He will go days with no even conversing to then when he does he functions like nothing at all is wrong. So about four several hours back my sister advised me that he left city, well basically the condition lead to which is what he posted on fb ( I will not have 1 ) must I be mad at this or no?

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Answer by Drose
He almost certainly is a Russian spy. dont stress.

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Question by M R: my boyfriend just left for the maritime and i have some queries?
this prior sunday my boyfriend left for maritime basic. 1. although hes at fundamental am i aloud to deliver him modest(wallet dimension) images like the 1 he took with him? two. How long ought to i count on it to get until i get my initial letter from him?
also any other info that i should know would be appreciated thanks:)
also any other info that i should know would be appreciated many thanks:)

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Solution by sweet daisy
Yes and about a month

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Solution by Kat S
to be properly straightforward, you will find a really small possibility they will not evens stay together particularly if she’s younger than him.

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Question by Oceana: what is with this dream?
ok im not going to go into full detail, but in my dream i was in love with a guy and he was dying.. ok this dream wasnt exactlly logical. but he was dying because he didnt have enough”energy left” ( i guess u needed that to say alive in this world) i guess someone had murdered him. i was so upset i looked for him and everything but thats not really the question. the question is that when i was dreaming this, i felt soooo bad… i felt ( i cant even describe it) like if i didnt find him i would kill myself. i wanted to die so much because he wasnt with me. now in real life im not depressed im a very happy person, but i dont know why this dream stuck with me so much that i can still remember the feelings i had in it. i had another dream like this where i wanted to die so much because i couldent find the boy i loved. ( these boys arnt family members they are like boyfriends) in my dreams i dont even no these people in real life. but i was just wondering what that meant when in a dream you can feel things so strongly, and mabye why i had wanted to die becvause i couldent b with them.

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Answer by gabi.
You desire male attention, love probably.

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Question by Sara: Can I change the address if I request redelivery from USPS?
I ordered something online and I live in a college dorm so I had it delivered to the address the university gave us to direct mail properly (which always works) but on the tracking the status of my mail says “Notice left” and my university filters and handles our mail so I don’t know where I could get the slip. So I thought maybe I could request redelivery over the phone and have it be to another address, (it’s in the same city) to an actual house (my boyfriends house) so I can get it from there.

Is it possible to do that? If not what should I do? I don’t have access to the slip and I already checked with the university’s mail center and there is nothing under my name.

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Answer by Steven R
If you’ve contacted your dorm mail center and your on-campus mail distribution center, then you likely need to contact the town/city Postal Service that handles your Campus Mail. This will likely end up a moot point. To get to the heart of the answer, recontact the entity you ordered from (you had best have their internal order system number) and then wait out the time for US POST to return and, if required (and it likely will), pay a second delivery charge. As you have already learned, direct it to a standalone location or get an off campus box service (UPS STORE, Mail Boxes Etc or other – not a PO Box as it may reject anything other than US POST deliveries such as FedEx, UPS, etc). How’bout those care packages from home? My suggestion is to get a UPS STORE box for your remaining years

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Question by STOP taking my Pizza!: What do you think of this story?
I wrote this long time ago…

Chapter 1

New York City. It was incredible. It is like the American city of lights. At least that was what Richard
Pritcher though. He was tired of living in the country and prefered a city life. Ever since he was 13 he
decided that he would leave Huston Texas, and that is exactly what he did after high school. He will now work as an accountent for the IRS in New york city.

Richard was very excited about his first day in NewYork. His plane landed right on time, 8pm.
He stepped off the plane feeling dizzy. Plane rides always made him feel nauseous, but coming here
was worth it. As he stepped off the last step he looked around, people in Newyork were extremly
different. It was as if landing on an unknown planet you did not know what to expect.

He walked into the airport and showed the officer his ticket. He nodded, glancing once at it and opened
the gate to let him through.

“You may go through Sir”. He said, as his big mostache shook along with his words. He walked
up to the phone bothe. “Quarter a Call”, it said on a note next to the coin insert button. As if I did not know, though Richard.
He searched for a quarter in his side pocket. He finally found and insert it into the machine. He picked up the phone, and reaized he had the
number in his back pocket. He searched it and found it. He held the phone using his shoulder as he dialed the number,

“923..4..5…6..6778″, he said outloud.

The Bell rang 6 times, before someone picked up.
“Hello”, A male voice that sounded very proffessinoal and buissness like answered.
“Can I help you?”.
“Yeah uhhhhh this is Richard. My cousin Velma Baker was suppose to pick me up at the LaGuardia Airport.
“Sir I think you have the wrong number”. “But-”, Richard pleaded but the person had already hung up.
Now what was he suppose to do. He had enough money for a cab ride, and could stay at a hotel.

As he turned around a women in her late 20′s was standing and smiling at him. She wore a white tank
top and a short navy bue skirt. Her long blond hair were pushed back into a ponytail.

She ran upto him, with a bear hug. For a skinny girl she was strong. “Hey Richard, How are you?”, she asked.
But before he could say anything she answered her own question. “Well, you look fine to me, come on we have alot
to catch up on”. She grabbed his hand and gudied him thorugh the busy Airport. “You know you changed
since the last time I saw you in Caifornia. You were such a chubby boy, and now look at you”. She
continued to talk. Richard was confused. Who the heck is this chick. They had now reached the parking lot.
Her car was parked in the handycap section.

She saw me staring, “I know but what can you do, there was no parking left”. She said smiling.
I stared at the car then her and then back at the car. “I’m sorry miss I don’t think I-”, “I’m Velma”, she said
laughing, and couldn’t stop. That laugh was so familier, and suddenely I remembered. She had
laughed the same way when Richard was 5 and she was 3. He had made her laugh by purposely falling
down the stairs. “Oh yeah, I remember now”. He said. “Do ya?”, she asked. He nodded.

“Well hurry up and lets get going before a cop gives me a ticket”. She said as she walked to the
driver side of the car. “Wait, I called your cell, but some man said it was wrong number”. I told her.
She walks back to me and looks at the number in my hand. “Oh this is not my cell number, sorry. It’s
my ex-boyfriends home phone number. I was living with him at the time. Sorry about that”. She said.
“No worries, I’m just glad I don’t have to pay for my ride”. I said jokingly. She laughed as she unlocked
the door and went inside”. I walked over to the passenger side and opened the door.
I meant to say right after college at the begining.

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Answer by Natasha
I think it’s good. I guess it depends on how long ago though.
But anyway, it is good.
I do think, though, that it reveals too much too quickly at the beginning. Not that his wanting to leave the country is a big secret, but you shouldn’t start off the book saying he’s in New York because he wanted to leave the country. Mention him being in New York and build up to it. Things are better that way. It created a wonder in the reader and sometimes even suspense.
Well good luck!

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Question by Enjay: He’s told me we probally wont be together in a year?
I love my boyfriend,we have been together for almost a year.
We have had ups and down’s,like most couples.
A few months ago,he told me that hes hoping to go to the university of essex,and that if he gets in,hes staying there and that he doesn’t know if we can be together when he goes to uni.
( He’s two years older than me )
Having told me before,that he wants to be with me his whole life,he wants my future,he doesn’t want to be without me? Hes now said this,and I said Okay,So we have a year left together,and i’ve been trying to just forget what he said.
But its not working,and everyday i’m just hanging around,loving him more and more,sometimes thinking ” ok,so how many weeks have i got left..”
I know its important to appreciate the time you DO have with someone,and I am.But im conscious that in a years time I am going to be completely and utterly lost.

Help?!

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Answer by wl
I wouldn’t waste too much time on him if he’s already set an “expiration date” on your relationship. He’s basically saying he doesn’t want to be tied down to you because he wants to party and do whatever once he’s gone and not have any commitments. If you still want to hang out with him that would be okay, but I wouldn’t miss out on a better guy because your waiting out the year.

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While she was in the restroom, a really nice/classy girl came up to me, and told me–junior high style–that her friend thought I was really cute and she asked if I had a boyfriend. I said no, and so she asked if it would be ok if he came and talked to me.

I watched this ADORABLE guy build up courage with his friends, and then he came over and started talking to me. I have to say it was definite and immediate attraction. We had a really fun time, and even went out to the empty dance floor and got everyone else in the huge, busy bar to start dancing, too!

My friend and I decided to leave at a little after midnight, and so he asked if he could call me later…I gave him my phone number, and he texted me like 15 minutes after I’d left, “I wish you didn’t have to leave!” we texted a bit before I fell asleep, and then again the next day, and we casually determined we wanted to see each other again.

Today I didn’t hear from him at all, but I really don’t want him to slip through the cracks. I also don’t want to be overbearing and scare him off.

Should I be the one to invite him to hang out? He told me to tell him when I’m free, but I want him to try a little harder than that.

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Answer by GUEST WHO again
one time yes if he does not respond then just forget about him

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Question by ☮: why was he acting lazy and uninterested during sex?
last night i went over to my boyfriend’s house and he was just acting weird. it was like he didn’t want to have sex and finally was like ok whatever let’s get it over with. not that he said that but that’s how he was acting. but he was just being lazy and it made me feel like i suck at life.
on sunday when i saw him last everything was normal and the sex was really good actually.
i texted him after i left “everything ok? u were acting kinda distant tonight” but he hasn’t responded and it’s the next morning. was this the right thing to do? what do i do now? i just feel shitty.

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Answer by cmac
i would feel shitty too and he was impolite not to reply to your text. i guess if he is back to being normal again you can put it down to him having an ‘off’ day!!~!

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Question by CARPE DIEM: Why do men send mixed messages?
My ‘boyfriend’ is adorning and sweet when he is with me, and sends me texts every single day, with sweet little nothings etc…

The problem is, I don’t see him more than once a week and he rarely mentions making plans except at the last minute…(especially night time visits ahem). To me, texts & talk are cheap…I expect to actually see him more often.

I know he and I are both busy but….am I wrong to thing this is strange? I would prefer if he made plans with me regularly…so I would have a clue as to when I’ll see him again, and not be constantly left “waiting around” to decide if I’d like to see him for another last minute interlude. I also think that once a week just doesn’t seem like enough to build a relationship.

A couple weeks ago, I met up with my friends to see him & his friends at a bar. He left with them (which included an ex of his) which really annoyed me – I expected he would want to leave with me. But claimed he was only seeing her to a cab and that he was going home & that I really should ‘trust’ him. He called me the next morning and apologized, though, saying he had acted insensitively and would have acted differently if given another chance…I asked him flat out what the heck he wanted with me, and he declined to answer – saying only that he would make it all up to me, and that when he did, I would know what it was he wanted from me.

He hasn’t made it up to me. In fact I’ve been getting messages from him since Thursday suggesting how much he misses me, but he’s yet to even mention getting together. He initiates these messages, by the way, not me.

We met 3 months ago, started seeing eachother about 2 months ago, and really just began dating about 1 month ago.

Guys? Girls? Am I expecting too much too soon? Or does he sound like he’s just after a regular booty call?
For a couple of weeks, I was always the one making plans…I stopped because I started noticing it was only me…mind you, he accepted most of my “dates”…Also – shadow – he never told me he was coming back…he actually told me he was leaving for the night.

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Answer by tobias
I think the best thing you can do is communicate these concerns with him. I know women try to let us know in other ways, but us guys do not have the ability to read minds.

I think its just the nature of the person.

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