my exhusband who’s 24 is having his girlfriend who’s 17 (also know as his mistress that he cheated on me with when i was 7 months pregnant.) move in with him in Dec. at that point they will have been dating for 1 year. i am almost certain for him it is for financial reason since he has to pay child support and she wants to get out of her parents house, shes still in high school. she has never payed a bill in her life!
my question is once they move in together do you think it will last? and if so how long? would this be considered a fast relationship?
In no way do i want him back i am just interested as to when he will feel the pain that i do.
The simple idea of you worrying about giving him pain is enough to disrupt your own well being. Move on with your life while knowing that in the end, he will get his.
He may never feel the pain you do. He may not be capable of deep human feeling.
Move on and focus on yourself and your kid.
When things go wrong, u get better or bitter
Wow he sounds like a real pervert loser dhe will prolly leave him sometime sense shes so young
He will realize it when all the bills are piling on top of him and all she wants is a new pair of sunglasses.
since he cheated on u with her, she knows that he cannot be trusted to go out for some milk,she will be on him like white on rice……
don’t worry about them, U are a grown woman who will get her life in order with or without a man.
honestly a man is like another kid anyways !…..unless he is a true man then he will treat u like the queen u are.
Call the police, he’s breaking the law! She’s still minor and he’s an adult. No matter if her parents okay the relationship, it’s still against the law. You could do it anonymously which is better than to do it as an ex spouse’s revenge.
It is a kind of funny question i think. No one know how long for this relationship. I think you should not care about it. Think something else that usefull in your life, such as , how to get more income or something important…..
Do not worry yourself too much if you already finished this matter in your head. Since the girl is just 17 and probably her personality did not mature yet your husband may face with some serious problems about living with her.
But it is not your problem anymore is it?
Best luck
sorry u have to pass trough all these bad things. concentrate on ur baby, leave him alone with his mistress. I’m sure one day she will leave him, especially if they r moving together. he will notice one day the difference. ignore them and raise ur beautiful child. and never take him back. he has no sense of responsibility and leaving u when u were 7 months pregnant? u could lose ur child that time. this is the worst thing.
First of all…a 23 year old man having sex with a 16 year old girl is considered illegal in many states!
Who knows how long any relationship will last? If you don’t want him back…then you shouldn’t care! It’s understandable for you to be hurt and of course you’re at the stage of your divorce where you want “revenge”….but neither is healthy.
Get on with your life…let him get on with his.
The best revenge you can get is simply make a go of your life…be successful..take care of your child…and be secure in the knowlege that you didn’t need him to make your life a success!
Best of Luck!
i am so sorry for you I ve been there my husband left me for an older woman 12 years older than him but he planned for her that she is SO rich anyway,I did ask a lot about there relationship she was ugly ,old but rich in your case she is so young and not able to support herself,after a while you will move on and you will be astonished that you really do not care anymore,so simple it will happen just focus on yourself of course no relation stays the same for a life time .
such men were so selfish that they left their wives of course they will leave the mistress,but you be ready for the victory as when she kiss him goodbye you will be so much independent like a star that he would never reach.
you be strong cry as much as you can ,empty your battery of this life and just when you are ready start making a new plan for your life,the not caring part came to me, but the hatred i did not pass that yet.
he will only feel the pain u are feeling now if he is on the receiving end of a betrayal and not until. chances are that eventually reality will come as it always does. but until he gets hurt he will not hurt. no one knows if it will last but chances are she will get tired of him one day because she is still so young and hasn’t experienced much of life yet. the reasons she is with him may be selfish and to escape her parents home. he will soon get a dose of reality with this young girl because she is probably immature and not really going to prove to be a great assett to him in the future.
dont know if it will last, and for how long…but, never forget:
K A R M A….what goes around, comes around