do married guys really care sometimes about women other than their spouse? Do men respect their mistresses, can they, like support them,emotionally,financially
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If they do, it is rare.
If they dont respect their wife enough to stay faithful then i doubt they respect the woman their cheating with.
They don’t like respect them at all….they’re getting whatever they can from them…a piece of ass usually. If they really cared about the ho, they would leave the wife and be with her…of course, that wouldn’t get her anywhere either because then he would probably turn around and do the same to her. The mistresses need to support themselves and stop being whores.
They do – but their judgment is suspect. Depends on the situation.
i would say no, men cheat to be with someone for a while not forever. if that wasn’t the case then men wouldn’t cheat and they would be separated or divorce, men know what they have is good so they wont let it go for someone they found to have fun.
Rarely.
They say that it is easy to be a mistress, since she only has to fulfill 20% of a mans needs. He gets the other 80% from his wife. The dynamics aren’t equal and the thrill of the illicit can add a false sense of spice to a clandistine affair that in normal circumstances would be a flop.
I doubt it.
I had a very short-lived affair. I was lucky enough that when it ended he was kind enough. But ultimately I was nothing more than a sex object to him. Not his friend, not anything.
While some men can I doubt that they like women can be with someone that they dont care about or respect. Generally people dont stray unless there is a real issue and sometimes its the mistress that plays a supportive role in saving the marriage….life is not as black and white as the question imples.
Who ever told you that one sold you a bill of lies. Men that cheat do not care about the person at all. If they did, they would not be with them, they would be with thier wives or girlfriends.
Its about control, arrogance, ego, getting thier rocks off and not a hell of a lot more than that. Forget the Pretty Woman image of the guy and the hooker. That rarely if ever happens in real life.
Married men don’t leave thier wives for thier mistresses, rarely happens. Don’t fall for it or you end up getting really hurt.
I’m sure many of them are in love, or think they are in love with their mistresses. One married man told me he was afraid I would lose respect for him because he was the one who was cheating. He also told me he loved me and when I left him he came and found me. I never expected him to leave his family and for me it was temporary. So I left. I know it was a selfish thing to do but I think he is closer and more devoted to his family now because of it. I hope so.
Absolutely not.
They can’t even respect or love the person that they made vows to love forever – how can they respect someone they didn’t make those vows to? And even if they do end up leaving the wife for the mistress, they end up cheating on the mistress as well. It’s a vicious cycle.
Yes. Until they are forced with a choice. They just don’t do either thing extremely well. It’s not for lack of trying. I’ve had girlfriends in these situations. It’s not just one-night stand stuff, but it’s also not marriage. And the other woman is always emotionally insecure. You have to realize men usually lie to these women and tell them their wives don’t love them or won’t have sex with them or some such and they cannot divorce for the children. Highly complex and to be avoided, imo.
No they don’t care about you if they did why did they go and sleep around on there wife for?…….It is both a mans and woman’s fault for sleeping together……….It doesn’t give any one the right to sleep around if you are married……If you want to do that they why did you get married for…..When you get married you don’t sleep around on your partner……It just goes to show what kind of person you are…..You just don’t have a heart when you sleep around with someones husband and he doesn’t care about you only just at that moment……
Well, they don’t seem to respect their wife, or their wedding vows.
A Mistress is just a fancy name for a “booty call”.
A booty call ain’t about love or caring, just about sex. Dogs do that!
If he’s “supporting her financially”, that qualifies her as a Whore!
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Some do and some don’t.
I don’t think RESPECT is on their vocab.
Think about it. He’s got non for the wife he’s cheating on, the one he made the vows to, so how could he possibly have any respect for the woman he’s boning on the side?
At least the wife has the security of the marriage, so if anything goes down, she will be protected, but the mistress has nothing but hopes and dreams.
And majority of the time, thats exactly how it stays.
Most of you must be married because you take it with extreme passion when answering.. but what if the mistress and the man see eachother more or communicate more, they actually do have a relationship..yes they might have the security at home but thats not saying he won’t fall in love with someone else..or maybe it’s an overwhelming attraction, chemistry..and no sex-so no booty call.. then what?
Javonna should really read this
Honestly, these men don’t respect themselves let alone any person in their lives. They are usually very selfish and will “collect” these women to feel needed and desired, without which they feel inferior. Your best option is to end things, make sure you hold the control when ending a situation like this, he might not express it but having a woman he desires and was once able to get, reject him hurts him harder then you think.