For those wives whose husbands previously cheated with mistresses, what is your relationship like after a while (months/years, etc..), when you guys continue on the marriage? How do you feel? Totally over? Ok with it? Still bothers? How is it like?
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I know of someone that her life has been touch by the shock.Its a nasty experience…..Men should be more careful cheating on their Apples
i stayed in a situation like that 4 10 yrs. it was so hard on the kids n i. tryna keep a happy face on 4 the kids. near the end he became so abusive, mentally physically, n emotionally. he acted like it was my doing. which was pure crap.
i finally left n found my true happiness. im right where im supposed 2 b.
i still cannot talk 2 my ex-husband. im so angry with him n how he made things out 4 our family. i dont think i ever would have gotten outta there if i didnt finally talk 2 sum1 about it. i hope this helps.
i was with a guy for five years who cheated on me at first i dealt with it but then i realized it wasn’t worth it why be with someone who does that to you i actually met someone towards the end of our relationship and my ex wanted me back he begged and pleaded but i think it shouldnt of took me leaving for him to realize what he wanted needless to say im finally with a guy i love and who respects me
Well, its only been one year. It was real easy to forgive him because I know he is remorseful and dedicated to getting our marriage back on track. Its the forgetting part that I’m still struggling with. I have good days and bad days but everyday I think about it. I know in my heart that we will be closer than before the affair because we are learning how to communicate issues before they become hurtful.
Its amazing how different men and women are. Once you accept the fact men are weak and selfish, motivated by sex, you can control the relationship. Before the affair, I did not realize that and took our marriage for granted. Now I know a man that doesn’t get his needs fulfilled will stray and get fulfilled somewhere else.
My husband cheated on me with what was supposed to be my best friend and after finding this out I have very little trust in any one now .
I divorced his sorry @ss and ended the friendship .
That there was the best thing I could have ever done .
I still have trust issues though and it takes some effort for any one to gain my trust . This has been almost 20 years ago .
I know that I will never put up with another cheater , ever !
If I find that the one I am with is cheating on me , he will be out the door . No questions asked .
It really hurts like hell to know that the one you are married to betrays you like this .
The way I see it now is if they really love you , they will not cheat on you .
Like I said I divorced the sorry S.O.B. which is better than my original plan . My original plan was to cut it off , slice , dice and puree it then make him drink it . That is how hurt I was .
My marriage continued for two years. It was never the same. Awkward sex, bad feelings, constant feelings of a lack of trust. It finanally ended in divorce.