I stumbled across some emails that indicate my husband joined a “People Search” website and the only name saved there is a girlfriend that he was very serious about 25 years ago. My insecurities are on overload but I don’t want to start a huge argument about it. Cyber cheating was an issue once before and it stopped immediately. That was with two strangers online–this is someone who shares a past with my husband.
Throw him out and refuse to argue with him about it.
Confront him. Seriously, I found a screen print of a conversation my fiance had with his ex with her NAKED on a webcam…. 8 months later…. he slept with her.
Cyber cheating is still cheating, I wish I’d done more about it when it happened.
It will be appropriate if you have a word with him of what you have seen and that you are worried he is starting this again (Cyber cheating) and see what he says. This is not confrontation
So, you rather live in misery, being cheated on, stripped of your respect and dignity because you don’t want to start a huge argument? Are you listening to yourself? You are the victim here, not him and by avoiding an argument you are giving him all the power to keep mentally abusing you by cheating.
Tell this guy to either shape up or ship out. Life is too short to live it with so much stress and worries and most important of all, without love. You can still make a decent and happy life out of yours, just get the courage and fill yourself with self respect and dignity and you will see the skies opening up to a new horizon and a new life.
Whether he is hopping in the sack with another or “cyber cheating” it is all the same, It shows a complete lack of Love & respect for you….People need to realize that there is more out there! Do not settle for a jerk that makes you un-happy…as long as you Love yourself & have Love to give, you will find the right one for you.
Ignore all these things and be happy with yu husband.if he meets anyone without yu knowledge then confront him and warn him.these long distance relationship even if it is past bury it and move on.
the best way is to confront him. Let him do the talking, You make decision after that. If you just leave him right now without find out the true, you might be feeling regret latter on.
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You need to confront him.
Don’t want to start a huge argument, well this is a huge thing. Talking sex with an ex girlfriend? That’s pretty serious, that’s only step away from actually sleeping with her. I would bring this up and soon. This needs to stop or you need to think about divorce, this is cheating.
Talk to him first. The fact that he looked up an old GF could just mean he wanted to see how she was doing. You can’t just assume he’s cheating.
He may be annoyed at first, but longer term he is going to have way more respect for you if you put your foot down.. some men are like children…do not walk on egg shells around his moods.
If he has an online girl then he’s disrespecting you and that means he cares very little.
these guy is a cheat and it does not matter if he is doing on-line or not.his attention should be on you and only you.it is so easy these days to get involve with things like this as we get so many offers for dating sites but i would never go on one even if i was curious.sort it out once and for all or walk out.
confront him and tell him how you feel, and how would he feel if he found naked pic of guys on your pc with mesages ?? also tell him if he continues,to place trash can liner over pc before he starts to cyber. safe cyber sex is the only way to go, you dont need a bunch of little i pods and laptops running around
I wouldnt handle it because his ass would be gone…
Personally I don’t think anything online is cheating. Now, if he starts meeting people…..
You should talk to him about it. There shouldn’t be a “huge arguement” about it – he should acknowledge your concern and do whatever it takes to alleviate it. If he’s resistant to that or doesn’t want to talk about it – then I think you have a serious problem.
Cheating is Cheating – it doesn’t matter if it’s Cyber or in-person. The only woman he should be focused on is you.