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1. katie2008 on June 6th, 2010 at 1:13 am:

   I’d want to know the name of a good attorney.

2. mamasitav on June 6th, 2010 at 1:55 am:

   Not really but I guess I would have to

3. Lou on June 6th, 2010 at 2:28 am:

   I would want to know yes. I don’t like the thought of living a lie, and that is what my marriage would be if that was to happen, If the mistress told me and knew of me i wouldn’t be held responsible for my actions. As far as i am concerned she would be as bad as him!

4. Marcy on June 6th, 2010 at 2:53 am:

   Yes I would like to know so I can get tested for venereal diseases, then divorce him.

5. Atheist on June 6th, 2010 at 3:33 am:

   Yes I’d want to know, and yes it’d matter if it came from his mistress. I’d be furious at both of them, and I’d find a good lawyer and since I live in California, I’d be entitled to half of everything he’s got.

6. Mrs. C on June 6th, 2010 at 3:37 am:

   Hell yeah I would want to know I agree with finding a good divorce attorney because I refuse to stay with a cheater I wouldn’t care where the information came from

7. -l-_Jungle_Ruler_-l- on June 6th, 2010 at 4:24 am:

   ohhh yeah..Id wanna know *loads shotgun* I wouldnt care who told me..the moment it was proven..double funeral..his and hers *serene smile* I loathe cheaters..there is a special place in hell reserved for them..the low life lying scumbags

8. #1 is due on Jan28th. Cant wait on June 6th, 2010 at 5:20 am:

   Yes I would like to know, I would hate to sit around not knowing my husband was cheating on me… I think everyone who gets cheated on has the right to know what has happened, that way they can decide for them self if they want to work things out with the cheater or just leave, noone should be lied to about such a thing or left in the dark. No I wouldn’t care if the mistress came and told me, I would be angry but more at my husband then the woman.

9. Ally on June 6th, 2010 at 6:10 am:

   i wouldnt want to know. If i really love him and i know for a fact that he loves me too, and just occassionally he does have sex some other ladies, i’d prefer not to know. As long as his attitude towards me doesnt change, and he doesnt give me any chances to suspect him. I woudlnt want to know. At the end all men cheat!! Its just different ways in which they do it. But at the same time if he’s found someone better than me and seing her on a regular basis thats a different case. In that case i would like/need to know, that our relationship is not the same, and rather let him go and let him be with whoever he wants to be, that way we’d both be happier

10. Helicreature on June 6th, 2010 at 6:57 am:

    I don’t think I would want to hear from a Mistress who is seeking revenge as you are. I am sorry that you were hurt by this man but I don’t think that you should be taking quite so much pleasure out of telling his wife. Your life has been temporarily disrupted but hers is permanently devastated, and you have both been wounded by the same man. Please remember that in your dealings with her.

11. Elle A on June 6th, 2010 at 7:54 am:

    Yes, I would want to know. And the only way I’d ever want to have any contact whatsoever with the mistress is so I can identify her and… possibly get myself thrown in jail for my actions against her.

    If the information doesn’t come from the husband, then the cheating is even more deceptive, and far harder to handle. So, if you are the mistress, and you decide that it’s you who has to tell the wife, you’re only making a bad situation worse.

12. alrozz on June 6th, 2010 at 8:52 am:

    My wife did find out and the info came from my mistress after I decided to break it off. She comes back and tells me “by the way I’m pregnant”.

    Aw, hell I said to myself, now I’m really screwed.

    My wife stayed with me and my mistress had a baby girl that I paid dearly in support payments. So my affair cost me, but I saved my marriage and got a beautiful daughter out of the deal.

13. Kim from Sydney on June 6th, 2010 at 9:34 am:

    no only if he still eats at home as I would forgive him at all times

14. Ashley N on June 6th, 2010 at 9:59 am:

    I would want to know and it would not matter if she told me. I would be grateful to her that at least one of them had the balls to tell me.

15. ? on June 6th, 2010 at 10:50 am:

    I would want to know. The thing you have to ask yourself is why would you tell her? If its because you are trying to do the right thing then good for you but if you are just trying to further your own agenda or get revenge on him then you need to back off and think about it. In the end the husband is the one who has done the most damage but if you were in a relationship with a married man and knew it you were wrong too. I am married and suspect my husband has cheated or at least thought about it. I have even called women when he was acting suspicious. But she lied and told me she didn’t know him. If I were told by the other woman I would expect her to be respectful of me and my position as his wife. If she were cocky, arrogant, snide or catty in anyway it could easily turn into a very ugly situation. Just remember that when you are in the wrong humility is a necessity. If the mistress doesn’t think she is doing anything wrong then she needs to not say anything to the wife. Just remember when you are the other woman there is more to the story than he is telling you.

16. Maree P on June 6th, 2010 at 11:50 am:

    Absolutely.
    I dont ever want to be in a unfaithful relationship. Can’t be honest… then on your way

17. Mona on April 9th, 2011 at 2:21 pm:

    Javonna, would you want to know if Teon is cheating? I think we know the answer. I believe he goes by the name Chancellor Burton. Women, try to keep your husbands happy so they don’t feel the need to stray and cheat with other women. This guy ruined my friend’s life.