Question by : Do you believe in the quote “Once a cheater always a cheater”?
Just wondering cause i believe when people have messed up in a relationship that they can forgive and really change. But wondering what all of yall think?? do u believe people can really change after cheating once?? i do.
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Answer by Jeremy T
Of course people can change. I sure there are many people who have only cheated once in their life.
What do you think? Answer below!
Dends on the guy
no
sometimes people regret their mistakes and never repeat them
specially if they were really forgiven
and felt safe
and some other times not
I think anything is possible but if a person lacks the respect it takes to not cheat in their life I seriously doubt that they will gain the respect for their partner needed not to do it again.
Yes, also depend on that person to.
Most of the time the root of a cheating problem in a relationship, it’s not a sex problem.
It’s normally a lack of intimacy/feel good emotions in the relationship.
So, if the relationship stays the same, then yes, if you guys work together to change things, no.
Google it. I don’t think I’ll be able to make my point clear here.
Sadly i was in a relationship for almost 7 years and made the huge mistake and cheated. NEVER again will i do it. SO i do believe that people can change. Everyone makes a mistake. But one thing to keep in mind is its ok to make 1 mistake not MULTIPLE.
Me and my Husband are still happily together and moving on.
depends if they actually have the mental capacity to realise that it’s wrong, there will be some room for change..
as long as they don’t think that it’s a wrong thing to do then they’ll keep doing it.
In Some Cases Always A Cheater!
I am assuming that you are talking about a personal relationship. Cheating at the root depends on the person’s value system and character. Intergrity is doing the right thing when no one is watching. How does this person interact with others.
Do they have productive or counter productive behavior in their life. Most of these characteristics come from their up bringing. My mother was firm and stern raising me. She taught me the value of respecting myself and others.
However my ex grew up watching his father cheat on his mother. This was his example and he repeated the cycle with me.
He got married and repeated the same thing with his wife. Sometimes you can measure a man’s heart by his willingness to be honest in his dealings with you. The same thing applies to woman. (Not male bashing here). Take a long hard look at their lives and relationships with others.
There is where you will find the aswers to this questions.
You have to find someone that desires true commitment such as yourself and not settle. That way you are not always looking over your shoulders and wondering if it’s the night you end up on the show “Cheaters.”
Yes
No I do not believe that line. I believe that a person can change their ways as they mature and grow.
Tracey, that is a myth. Some folks have made mistakes in their lives and have changed, so what is so different if a person cheated before. Cheating only becomes a behavior if you practice it and don’t want a respectable relationship. It all boils down to making the right choices and really want to change.
I dated this female off and on for about 6 years , she cheated the first time we broke up , then we got back together she cheated again , it went like that for a while , until I I got tired of it , so yes once a cheater always a cheater
the quote “once a cheater always a cheater” is true on some part. if the person doesnt really have intentions on changing then they’re gonna keep doing what their doing. but if the person has their heart in the right place and is willing (can’t force) to change then thats when the quote becomes a negative.
Yes, people do change, it all depends on the person i guess.
nope… cos i believe that there are too many reasons why someone would cheat and they wouldn’t apply to the same person in every relationship they are in…