Question by Nyuu: Do you believe in the saying “once a cheater, always a cheater”?
Do you believe that if someone cheats once, they will always be capable of cheating no matter who they’re with and how much they claim to love them? Or do you think people can change?
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Answer by jare bare
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
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it is true 99% of the time
If they cheated once, then they will ALWAYS be capable of doing it again. They can say they will never cheat until they are blue in the face and you would be a fool to believe them. Fool you once, shame on him. Fool you twice, shame on you. Fool you three times, then you will always be the fool.
i use to cheat. but its cause i didnt care about the person.
but ever since i got with my current boyfriend who i have been with for 2 years i have not once cheated on him. i love him & i would feel really guilty if i did. and i have had many opportunities to cheat but i never did because i respect him. so yeah some people can change.
i did. he obviously changed my ways.
just like your face changes
your muscles grow when you work
out thats how people change its hard for
them to do so but its possible
i mean youve changed somehow right?
well they will 2 just it takes time and the right person
Yes.
There might be the odd exception where people cheat when immature (say, in high school, when the relationships aren’t very serious and they’re not thinking) but then grow out of it. But for the most part I think it’s true, and it’s not the sort of thing I would take a risk on.
no, i think people change.
my boyfriend has nightmares about cheating on me again.
i’ve cheated also, and could never. ever do it again.
i didn’t get caught out by the guy, but i’ve never felt worse guilt.. and couldn’t do it again.
Yes. If he cheats on me once he’ll do it again. But maybe he’ll love his next girlfriend enough not to do it, so not really in that sense but on the same person sense yes. Wow, confusing.
thats not true at all. i’m not a cheater but i know ppl or used to cheat and have stopped for good. now generally, what we normally see or experience are those “once a cheater, always a cheater” kind of guys that cheat remain a cheater.
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Sure, people can change, but you need to see other signs, too. For instance, Christians say a person can be “born again”, which means they’re a new person. But there’ll be other signs, like he stops drinking and smoking, too. Or gets his teeth fixed, or he goes back to school. If he just says he’ll never cheat again, that’s not enough. It’s just words.
yup its just like picking up a bad habbit.
yeah true.
I’ll give you my answer by telling you all a little story.
I almost cheated once in a moment of profound and touching love. We both had fallen deeply for each other and we held each other all through the night, knowing we would never have each other.
I was taken by surprise how powerful my feelings were and how irresistibly I desired this sweet and lovely woman. I’m so sad it happened, but I’ll always be touched by what I experienced.
I came clean about everything that happened when I went to visit my girlfriend. I knew she’d never find out unless I told her and that it would hurt, but she deserved the complete truth. I never planned to just about cheat on her, and I was so sorry that I was that weak. I’m still with my girlfriend to this day and I haven’t gone back and done anything like that again.
I’ve made some mistakes in life and I’ve always tried to make up for them and become a better man for my experiences. At the same time I’ve had to ask for forgiveness from the people I’ve wronged and I’ve been lucky to know good people who could find forgiveness for me. For that I’m grateful and it helps me when I’ve been wronged too, because I’ve had to learn how to forgive even when there’s still pain. Sometimes there are people you can’t trust, the kind of people who really don’t care if they hurt you, but if you’re with the right person there are ways to make things better, overcome mistakes that have been made and live together happily.
whatever the reasons are, cheating is something you’ll always regret. i cheated on my bf by dancing with 2 guys in a sandwich in a club and i feel cheap and dirty the morning afterwards. granted one guy looks better than my bf but i have nothing in common with the good lookin guy that I still ran after my bf. i should’ve said no to my friend to go out clubbing cuz i tend to do crazy stuff there.
had another affair on another bf. i liked the other guy better but i regret the other guy because he wasn’t listening to me anymore and just took over my body without asking me first. the other guy’s really a thief. so yea i regret any kind of affair. it turns into something ugly
most of the time, yes.
People can change. I guess I don;t believe in the saying