Should a girl be made aware that her boyfriend is cheating on her? He has been cheating on her for almost a year and has never been caught. Aside from the cheating it seems like they’re in love and happy. Should the girlfriend just be kept in the dark?
i think she should know
If you are this girl’s friend, say nothing. Otherwise, you will be the one she is mad at and not the cheater. Most times girls know they are being cheated on and choose to look the other way. You will only embarrass her. Also, tell no one EVER that you knew about this. Remember to look really surprised when you find out because she will find out on her own.
No let it out to her because love means everything has to be true from inside to out. No dark lights between the happiness, everything should be clear and bright light. Just tell her and she will decide what to do about it. Make sure you are not caught about it and you like her right? Well if she loves him so much and cares for him, she should know everything about him and not end up being cheated by a guy in the future that is so sad and bad for the evil guy. Let it out now, please, if you want to.
Keep your nose out of it, they will only wind up being mad at you. He will lie and make you out to be a trouble maker and she will believe him and you will be the only one to lose.
“Aside from the cheating it seems like they’re in love and happy”, are you kidding, this isn’t right! If he were happy he’d not cheat.
She deserves to know! please send a (compassionately written) anonymous letter.
It is not your job nor responsibility to act like a national enquirer employee, by leaking info that you really don’t have all the answers to nor proof, is simply not merited, however, age pending of course, as younger girls are more naive and don’t quite get it, even when it is right in front of them, so if this girl is a girl, she may take a bit longer to catch on, but everyone at some point or another, finally starts getting this intuition that things don’t quite add up, and she will eventually get this gut feeling that not all is what it seems, as I already stated, she will find out the hard way, but at the end of the day, it will be her way, on her own terms and within her own head and heart, and as you said yourself, they seem to be in love and happy, and I already stated that not all things are what they seem, visual appearances can be very mind altering, also, this girl may not be as in the dark as you suggest, so leave it alone, personal relationships are best left off personal.
No.
id rateher be blissfully unaware….