I felt as if a truck struck my chest at 100 miles an hour. Did I overreact? IF this ever happened to you, what did you feel? I guess it is harder when you see it with your own two eyes.

I felt as if a truck struck my chest at 100 miles an hour. Did I overreact? IF this ever happened to you, what did you feel? I guess it is harder when you see it with your own two eyes.

She told me, I wished she had shot me in the head.
I was scared. I thought at this point there no hope in salvaging my relationship. I was worried and heartbroken that I might lose my wife.
funny how the first two answers were women cheating…okay now we can put to bed that men are dogs.
betrayal, anger hate , like my world just ended. no you didn’t overreact
I wanted to beat her face in. I wanted to kill him. I kept my sanity and the only one that really got hurt was me. I cried and vomited and cursed God. I stood in the middle of a field and screamed at the top of my lungs. I truly wanted death to take me as I didnt have the strength to do it myself. I lost 50 pounds from a healthy 200lb frame. I tried to everything I could including leaving work at noon to run home to have sex with her so she wouldnt want to leave and do it with him. Ultimately, I divorced her. It still hurts a little and its been 2 years since she told me. You have to put to “fix it” time in though. If you dont self doubt will occur after you realize that a life of distrust..notice I said a LIFE, the WHOLE THING, and pain is not worth salvaging a marriage that only one person was comitted to. Im Sorry
That happens much more in this world than we even realize. If that happened to me, it would be much more than what I could handle and is one reason why I have chosen a celebate life.
My stomach literally feel to the floor and so did I. I balled for a long time and then when I saw him (I found the evidence while he wasn’t home) I punched him in the face without even telling him I knew anything.
total devastation, betrayal, heart ripped into a million pieces. I have never truly felt a REAL broken heart until that moment. You are NOT overreacting.