Comments for Get Your Ex Back Now. Relationship Questions and Answers

Comment on Why does my girlfriend think Facebook is for cheaters? by MPSLICK2010

MPSLICK2010 — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 13:03:09 +0000

She is most likely afraid that you will meet other women on FB, and that you will want to get to know other women!!!!! IT CAN HAPPEN!!!!! :O

Comment on Why does my girlfriend think Facebook is for cheaters? by Julia

Julia — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 12:08:41 +0000

facebook is a way to see how you are doing by your status updates and stuff, and uploading attractive pictures. if you make a status about your gf and you in a small argument , other girls may comment on it and flirt with you. or, on your pictures comment “sexy!” and stuff, and girls get jealous fast. Also, you have private messaging which you can message anyone, about anything and your girlfriend might be scared if a pretty girl messages you wanting to hang out and you say yes.

Comment on Why does my girlfriend think Facebook is for cheaters? by Baby Girl

Baby Girl — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 11:10:38 +0000

if you cared about her at all and didn’t want to hurt her you would get rid of it…..how would you like it if she did your friends in front of you? karma sucks…i would watch what you do cause the more you hurt her, the more likely she is to end up hurting you in the future smart ass

Comment on My Wife left me because she became depressed and now wants back. Should I take her? by Hawker

Hawker — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 03:21:34 +0000

There’s no right answer to this question.

If you love her and feel that you can regain your trust in her, by all means go for it.

I don’t think I’d be able to do it. Yes, she was depressed and everything, but when things got rough she jumped into bed with another guy. There’s no way around that.

Good luck in whatever you choose.

Comment on My Wife left me because she became depressed and now wants back. Should I take her? by Abby

Abby — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 03:06:02 +0000

I think you two should have a talk and work things out before taking each other back….. work out your problems first (reasons of why you separated in the first place) and find answers for it and really willing to make this work, then take her back

Comment on My Wife left me because she became depressed and now wants back. Should I take her? by craig b

craig b — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 02:22:34 +0000

You’re called to show forgiveness in marriage. This was your own VOW!
However, there are some things that need to be addressed and changed here for it to work again. It’s NOT going to be the same game plan.

There will be new BOUNDARIES established and adhered to. There will be no more GAMES. Know why your wife got depressed? Because she is too IMMATURE to be in any kind of self-control over her own emotional state. She is massively SELFISH. When she doesn’t/can’t get what she wants, she has a “temper tantrum” like any little child. This is manifest as depression.
Why did she move into an affair? Because she is selfish. Why does she want to come back to you who have shown so much love? Because she WANTS and NEEDS what you can provide her. Again, this is her sign of tremendous selfishness because she NEEDS. She has little to give.

Love is all those things that one GIVES to another asking nothing in return. She is asking for a TON in return. You seem – not so much. Perhaps this is the greatest sign of love?

Comment on My Wife left me because she became depressed and now wants back. Should I take her? by Bri

Bri — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 01:25:44 +0000

We all make mistakes… at least she didn’t cheat on you (I suppose you can call yourselves separated?). She probably thought that removing herself from you would help her figure things out and prevent her from hurting you with her depression. I would fix the problem first (about infertility) with counseling before giving a relationship a chance.

Comment on my wife left and is bringing up the past? by cyberdick92

cyberdick92 — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 00:59:08 +0000

Well; she isnt treating you right:) and you should forget her and move on to somebody who doesnt have an addict and who will keep steady income and who will actually treat you with the respect you deserve:)

Comment on My Wife left me because she became depressed and now wants back. Should I take her? by Pokemon Needer

Pokemon Needer — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 00:29:44 +0000

tbh i think you should not take her back because she did cheat on you even if she thought she had a good reason. tell her to take a lie detector test if you really want her back.

Comment on my wife left and is bringing up the past? by Common Sense

Common Sense — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 00:17:27 +0000

There is something about an addiction, yes she has a gambling addiction if she lost assets or excessive amounts of money, that you need to realize. People with addictions do not take accountability or responsibility for their actions because that would mean they have to face their addiction and come to terms with getting rehabilitated. But, Nooooo, most addicts just want to play the blame game. You see, if they twist and divert the attention onto someone else, the blame then casts off of them and onto someone else. This is a typical manipulative trick addicts use in order to get away from facing their problems and what their problems have caused. You are stuck in that trap.

This is nothing but her guilt talking. She is well aware of what she had done and maybe is continuing to do. She is guilty and she is using the blame game to deflect her guilt because it is just too hard for her to face the consequences of her actions.

That is what is happening here. Alcoholics do it. Drug addicts do it. Sex addicts do it and so do gamblers.