Question by Tazz: Everyday I get depressed?
My boyfriend of 4 1/2 years and I are back together. He has “left” me twice. While we were broken up he dated other women. He is a few years older than me and the woman are usually his age. He always comes running back to me in the end though.
We recently got back together and for some reason I have NO trust for him and I am always depressed. I always think he is going to leave me again or get back toghether with his previous girlfriends. I haven’t been able to eat in days and I never smile anymore. I always questions who he is talking to, who he is with and if he even loves me anymore (he tells me he does, but i don’t know, i don’t trust him)
Can someone please tell me what I should do? I’m a hopeless wreck right now with no trust in my boyfriend.
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Best answer:
Answer by Jessica
Wow, I went through the exact same thing with my high school boyfriend! We were together (on and off) for 5 years, and he broke up with me several times to chase after other girls, then always came back to me when it didn’t work out. Every time he did it he left me feeling like crap, and every time he came back I had less trust for him.
The way you feel is completely validated. It’s hard to give your heart to someone who has been so careless with it! My heart really goes out to you, cus I know exactly how you feel. You know that no matter what decision you make, it’s gonna hurt. It’s hard being single again after being with someone for so long, but you are obviously miserable with him. The truth is the way he treats you is not ok, and if he’s done it a couple of times already, I’m willing to bet he’ll do it again.
If you are truly unhappy (and it seems like you are) then you need to break the cycle. You deserve to be treated so much better than this! It won’t be easy to do, but in the long run you’ll be so much happier. It’s better to be alone and happy than with a guy who makes you miserable. I hope things get better for you! Good luck!
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