Question by le.riot: I’m so stucked with this guy. Should I forget about him?
Our story was so damn short, but at least we had one. We liked each other. He went out about 2 or 3 times, we kissed and stuff. Then, I travelled to Chile for 2 weeks to see my family. He said, the day before I left: “when you come back, you and me will be boyfriend and girlfriend, because I like you so much”. And he said it again, and again, while I was gone. I came back. We met, and he told me: “Please forgive me, but I have a crush on another girl, from my school, you’re so beautiful, but I’m not able to take her out from my mind, so we can’t be together right now. we can be the best friends…” and stuff, then he kissed me and he left. I cried for 1 week because of that. He’s actually acting “weird” with me again but I think it’s just my imagination. I can’t stop thinking about him even when I know that we’ll never be what we used to be. Even when I like other guys, I can’t stop thiking about him. What should I do to forget about this guy and go on with my life?
Best answer:
Answer by minime
He became a challange. No girl can resist a challange, but you should. He is a player
What do you think? Answer below!
would you really want to be with a guy who changes his mind alot of times because of other crushes? i know i wouldnt. if a guy changes his mind every single time, it means he is not taking you seriously and just hops around to see what girls come his way. That is the weakest thing a girl can do; cry. Instead of making them feel sorry, they feel over power. move on girl, its a big pond and there are millions of fish swimming around.
i went through something like this and the best thing to do is to not do the “best friend” thing cuz ur just gonna get jealous everytime he talks about or has a girl…so i suggest, stay away from him, it’ll hurt but not as much as hearing him talk about other girls around you, or tellin’ u he loves u but can’t be with u
I do not think you will be be able to completely forget about this guy, and why should you? You had some wonderful times together which you can cherish forever.
You do need to get on with your life, though, and you will eventually. I think the best thing to do when you are trying to get over an unfortunate ending is to make a better beginning. Start something new that has nothing to do with him and won’t remind you of him. Take a dance class, try a new sport, or do whatever else excites you. Once you get caught up in the current activities of your life, the situation with him will seem less pressing. Not only will it provide you with a distraction, you may even meet new people who will remind you that he is not the only catch out there.
Good luck!
I think it’s just going to take time because it seems like you really liked him. You should definately take time to heal and move on. I suggest that you do not see another guy just to get over him because I believe that is a misconception and it does not work. I don’t think you should wait around until he breaks up with his g/f, I think you should just move on with your life.