Stephen C asked:
before i met my now ex-girlfriend i never cared about what i looked like, so i was overweight. i was around 250 lbs and i’m only 16
when i met my girlfriend i started to want to look good, because she was beautiful and i wanted to look like i deserved her.
during our time together i started eating right and i lost over 60 lbs
but she left me last week, didnt even do it to my face. she sent me a message on myspace
since then i have been over eating, and usually, if i eat really a lot, i make myself throw up
i dont want to, i just cant resist. i know its not healthy and i shouldnt be doing it. i dont know what to do.
i’m sinking back into the depression shayna pulled me out of.
what can i do about it?
Relationship Questions
before i met my now ex-girlfriend i never cared about what i looked like, so i was overweight. i was around 250 lbs and i’m only 16
when i met my girlfriend i started to want to look good, because she was beautiful and i wanted to look like i deserved her.
during our time together i started eating right and i lost over 60 lbs
but she left me last week, didnt even do it to my face. she sent me a message on myspace
since then i have been over eating, and usually, if i eat really a lot, i make myself throw up
i dont want to, i just cant resist. i know its not healthy and i shouldnt be doing it. i dont know what to do.
i’m sinking back into the depression shayna pulled me out of.
what can i do about it?
Relationship Questions
i wasnt hungry when my girl friend messed eveything up a few days ago i didnt eat anything but now im normal again, just wait a few days and ull feel better. talk to your friends for support
Go to the Dr. explain whats going on,there is help and there is hope.Good Luck!
You said that two weeks ago your hand was cut off as a result of an injury sustained while working at a bowling alley in which case you would be in physical therapy and would have access to psychiatric care. If you have not already had a psych screening due to your injury then you should bring up you current depression when it is scheduled. I understand the depression you must feel over a girl but you need to get over it. There are people who can help, including myself. You just have to start being honest with yourself and move on.