My girlfriend is 18 and her mum left her to live with another man. My girlfriend still has support from her dad and grandparents, but she is still angry and upset with her mum, and refuses to go to her wedding as she feels betrayed.
She still loves her mum very much. Is there any advice/help i can offer?
stick by her side
The best thing you can do for her is to just be there for her. Women don’t want our advice, they want our unconditional acceptance and love.
just be there to listen. there really isnt anything you can do.
this can take years…. especially if the relationship between the 2 of them was bad to begin with.
you could encourage her to talk to her mom, but i wouldnt push it.
you can stick by her side and tell her every thing is going to be just fine. you should also tell her to talk to her mom because her mom may not understand her feelings of what she did.
Just be there for her and listen when she needs it. Give her a reassuring hug when she needs it. And be by her side if/when she does decide to talk to her mum.