Question by Megan: How can she get away with this all?
Okay, this is a pretty screwed up situation. i apologize for it being so long
My boyfriend’s older brother had a live in girlfriend that he was with for 11 years, and has two kids with. She has a kid from another man. 5 years ago, my boyfriends parents got guardianship of all 3 children, because there was a house fire that the oldest caused, and got out of control because he was at work and she was too lazy to get out of bed and watch them. there was alot more to that. she was a horrible housekeeper and they both ended up in jail for child neglect. she was also put in in jail for robbing a country club for two nights in a row. she is on probabtion and under investigation from her work for her shift missing 16k. and theft from a grocery store.
two days after christmas, she left him voluntarily. he was very broken up about it, and ended up committing suicide in february of this year. we found out that she was on the phone with him when he hung himself, but didnt bother to tell anyone until 8pm the next night, after we found him. now they lived next door to my boyfriend and his parents. two days after he died, she stated that the family had grieved long enough, and that she deserved to get into the house, to “get things she had left” there was nothing in there that was hers. we have video of her taking everything that she wanted out of the house.
she now has a new boyfriend that is a well known coke dealer in our town. we have had to contact the police on several accounts, 1, she broke down the back door on the house she lived in and ransacked the place. 2. she was seen by multiple witnesses breaking in and taking over 3000$ worth of stuff that they were storing in the house because they had just moved in march. 3. for breaking in again. the 2nd time, she showed up while we were speaking with the officer, filing the report, with a piece of mail that she had sent to the house, stating that she still lived there. since she left in december, she has moved 4 times, and has stated her new addresses in court, in january and april for the child guardianship case. the cop told us it was a civil matter and that he couldnt do anything, even though my boyfriends dad owns the property outright
now she has sent mail to the new house, which she has never lived in. possibly to get in and take the valuable things we had removed from the old house, like a tv, a coin collection worth alot of money and all the computers with the paperwork where she is actively involved with child support fraud on the kid from another relationship. she has been seen multiple times driving by the house, which i live in with my boyfriend. she calls and harasses us, and is telling her children to flunk school and not bathe to make my boyfriends parents look unfit.
she is obviously a drug addict, and very manipulative and lies constantly. we have been working with an attorney. we are trying to work with the police, but they are not helpful and just sending us in circles and telling us its a civil matter.
we’re at a point where we’re scared to sleep or leave the house for fear of her coming in and either causing harm or stealing our stuff. we cant pin her with anything, and the cops have even said that she’s falling through loopholes and that we just need to sue her.
does anyone know of anything we can do different to get this kind of evil off the streets?
I forgot to mention that we live in Indiana
Best answer:
Answer by Cliff
You can’t get her off the streets…but you can sue her.
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