Our job pay for ivf.And she 3 eggs implanted.Now he has a son from a previous marriage,but was stressing my friend out for a little girl.She’s in school and work full-time.Now she was having a hard time holding her babies and did the ivf thing he has left her for the ex.I don’t want to say the wrong thing to her,because I want to kick his *** watching my friend hurt the way she do.Any advice it is her husband????
I have always learned that no matter what your best friend may do it is always best to support what they have done or are doing. My advice is to listen to what she says very carefully, then you will know what she wants to hear. This isn’t about saying what you want to tell her right now about her sleezy ex or blah blah blah, because that will just make her more upset. Remember she is pregnant too and she will always be a little emotional while she is pregnant.
Tell her what she wants to hear. Supporting her and making her feel better will help her out more than you think. The most important thing right now is that she is happy so she can hold those babies because if she loses them…. you know the rest of the story, it will be a mental breakdown for her.
My advice…. LISTEN and make her comfortable.