by The Rocketeer

Question by just.me.: Should I apoligize to her? PLEASE help!!!!!!!! ( KINDA LONG)?
i work with “jane” who is 22, im 18. she tutored me last year ( she went to my school 5 years ago, and is married to my brothers best friend ). after she tutored me, she said that we should hang out again and it was fun. so a couple of days after i texted her and thanked her for helping me and she freaked out me saying not to talk to her again and that i didnt even know her.

so finally after a year of not really talking ( just the casual hi ) , i texted her and said ” you arent mad at me right? ” she said no. and i thanked her again for helping me cause she really helped me out and gave me alot of advice. and the next day at work apparently she said hi to me, but i didnt hear her so i didnt say hi back. and then the next day she said it again and i didnt say hi back ( i was still mad how she didnt apoligize for freaking out at me )

and then when i went to get change from her ( at work ) she said ” i wont get it for you unless you talk to me, why wont you talk to me?” and just to let you know she was saying this all at work. i said ” i dunno” and she said ” fine come get the change’ and when i did she said ” so what the hell is going on? ” and i said ” im mad at you how you left ” —- she hung out with me, promised we’d hang out again and just left….

and she said ” what i left? your the one who didnt talk to me for a year and then randomly text me. and then you dont even say hi to me those days!” and i was so shocked, i felt like crying. here we were at work and she was yelling at me i couldnt even say anything. so then when i got the change and was walking back to the cashier, she said ” well if you arent gonna talk to me, then im not gonna fuckin talk to you”. ** she swore right at work, at me!**

so now she is travelling across the world for another month. she is going to my brothers house in china in a bit. its funny how good friends her, and her husband are with my brother but me and her cant get along. ****** when she gets home, should i apoligize to her? or not mention anything? forget about her? or wait for her to apoligize? ****** WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WERE ME!!

THANKS =)

Best answer:

Answer by Kira H
ask her to go to lunch with you or something like in a park that is public but not too public just in case she has some personal feeling she needs to get out but wont freak out completely on you. get everything sorted out and it may take a while but it NEEDS to be fixed. if confusions like this keep happening i would suggest keeping a safe distance from her

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