Question by Cammie: Should I tell my husband a man from my business class called our home and requested me as a facebook friend?
Or tell this freak to beat it?
This man and I had a business class together and our attendance & sign in sheet had our info on it. When he called our home he left “professional” sounding message as if we (he & I) have business together! I’m sure he is trying to flirt or be interested in me. He is married and knows I am too. I never gave him my information.
My husband will NOT take this lightly. Not sure if I should handle this on my own or let my husband go off on this creep. What is this best plan to deal with a person / stalker who invades your privacy?
Best answer:
Answer by Jery E
a guy that leaves a msg isn’t a stalker you retard. don’t hurt your arm patting yourself on the back. he just wanted to bang you.
What do you think? Answer below!
If your PROF left your personal info where someone else could find it, I’d be in the office of that dept chair about 15 minutes after I got the initial call from the stalker.
That’s 100% not cool: your info isn’t for anyone else to see.
Second, if YOU are totally on the up & up OF COURSE YOU TELL YOUR HUSBAND!!!
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Well, for protection’s sake, it’s always a good idea to get the people you trust to be involved when you think there’s a possibility that someone IS a “freak”…
With that being said, you can politely tell the individual that you think it is not appropriate for him to contact you outside of class and then inform the professor of the class that you do NOT want your information publicly accessible to other students.
Just my opinion.
Do people get dumber during the holidays? Just ignore his request, pay more attention in class and stop worrying about trivial crap.
Ignore it…..if this fellow becomes too persistant, inform him you WILL tell your husband and then he can deal with YOUR HUSBAND.
Your husband verbally ‘going off’ on him should be avoided unless the jerk continues. I wouldn’t want your husband to face legal problems because he couldn’t keep his anger contained over some idiot jerk not worth any legal difficulties.
No problem with being friends on facebook as long it goes no further than that. If your husband has a problem with it then there must me some other reason for his mistrust in you that you have done in the past. So add him to your friends list and for that matter your husband should be on your friend’s list as well. And him asking you that does not make him a stalker.
You are making way to much out of nothing. Unless he is actually doing something else besides asking you to connect on facebook. And from your post he is not. If you do not want to add him then do not add him. Geezzzzzzz
Weird that he would call your home to ask he if he can be added to your FB page. Why not just send a friend request? Anyway, if there is no interest there, then just tell him that you are married and he is not to call you. You’re aren’t interested. Done!
wow,, hurts to be fabulous you. such drama. over a …. phone call.
be grateful you still have some little bit of attraction left that someone would politely call you and want to be your facebook friend.
then ignore the whole thing and go on with your life without involving your husband, or us.
Is it possible he could just be way overzealous about “networking”?. I tend to treat people as though I don’t think they intend anything improper as long as they don’t say or do something that couldn’t be taken any other way. You can always pretend to take something at face value, even if you think a person has ulterior motives.
So, if this were me, I’d give him a terse “No thank you,” so he would know that I got the message (so he wouldn’t feel the need to leave more messages thinking I didn’t get the first one) but wasn’t interested in staying in touch. Tell your husband about the weird guy if you like, but I don’t think he needs to say anything to this guy unless the guy starts harrassing you. (And even then, there would be other possible ways to handle it besides having your husband tell him off.)
He is a dork, and yes you should tell your husband.
Aren’t you smart enough to know that?