woman, they are so happy. My daughter thinks he is god as does his friends. It is like everyone is saying, your a cool guy for what you have done.
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he won’t
he will probably cheat on her as well
sometimes
maybe knows maybe doesn’t
crazy
well first of all your daughter and her friends are children and don’t know about relationships or marriages. I truly believe in karma. You just wait and see that one day something will bite him in the bum and maybe he will stop being a jerk and treating women like women and not like objects.
and what would his side of story would say? his (ex) wife took every piece of who he is until he had nothing left, then some lovely woman helped him back on his feet, finding himself again and leaving you?
Oh he will get what he deserve, sooner or later. As far as your daughter, she should think highly of him. No matter of his mistakes, he is still her father, her only father. It just means that no matter what he does in life, he loves his daughter and she love him.
That’s because he didn’t tell his friends the whole truth of what really happen between you two. And the children will always think the world of their parents no matter what. And the kids shouldn’t be dragged into the middle of fights.
They only get away with it because people like you do not fight back. Yes, your daughter and your friends might think that desertion is cool, but have you ever explained to your friends and daughter how you feel?
Well, if you believe in God – he will have to give an account and that judgment will not be so pretty. His arrogance and selfishness really speak for themselves. Your daughter can’t help but love her dad no matter what and his friends are equally shallow and lacking in understanding. His friends are probably part of the reason he left you in the first place. If a guy has friends who are supportive of his marriage they can help him through any challenge, but if the friends are encouraging him to have friendships with other women and don’t generally like you – then your marriage is definitely in trouble for it. Plus, his new woman – that relationship will eventually end as well – the statistics are really really negative for second marriages lasting when a guy leaves for another woman. What goes around comes around – and you’re just not seeing the results right now – but wait.
People don’t fall in love with each other with the intention of breaking the other persons heart. I’m not saying there are pigs out there that do that, but I would bet that if your ex was one of these people, you would have seen that a long time ago. Anyway, it appears that the only one hurt here is you. Let him go and in time, you will begin to heal and it won’t hurt as much. If he decides that the woman he’s with makes him unhappy, then he’ll end up hurting her as well. It is my experience that men who live like this ALWAYS get hurt themselves at one time or another.
I f he cheated on you he will cheat on her give it a year or so.
He;s not the cool guy people think he is.
I know exactly how you feel.
My childrens father was with me for 3 yrs, he treated me very badly and said it was because i decided to keep the children. He said in order to make it up to him i have to do sexual things until hes happy with me again…..stupidly i agreed, only to find out that throughout our whole relationship he had another girlfrined!! I confronted this girl to tell her exactly whats been happnin, but he had already pre warned her, by saying i was going to attack her, she believed him and took me to court!!!! She won her case and i saw the 2 of them together like nuthin has happened, laughing having fun. He denys my yougest child is his and she believes him, i even tried to get a dna test so i could prove myself, but he got out of it.
Now im rasing 2 kids, with not one penny from him (even tho he admits to the first child). Since all this happened i have become depressed and have lost all faith in god. I cannot understand how sum1 can emotinally/and sexually abuse someone yet they are fine, can have a relationship and the person theyve affected never gets over it!!
I really really hope your pain starts to heel cause i know exactly what your going through.
All the best babe….xxx
You know what?
It’s terrible being the one left behind.
You need to meet people (grocery store, on line, restaurant – borrow the ketchup, etc.).
When you meet Mr. Right, and you feel like you’re on top of the world of love, you will thank your ex-husband for leaving so you can really be happy with someone else.
My personal experience is that it catches up to them. My ex cheated on my, we got divorced, and she married the guy. He’s 18 years older, lost his job because of the affair, and is not exactly what she thought it would be like. Fast forward 8 years and she has paid through the years in poor relationships with our kids, he’s on medication, she supports him, and I moved on and met a wonderful woman that she is jealous of. Payback is a medivak. Time seems to sort these things out. You’ll just have to know that justice will never be fully served but it will come in portions.
Karma will get him in the end, don’t fret!
Maybe she’ll cheat on him, and he’ll get to feel the agony he put YOU through!
Mine left me for someone else, too, I can’t wait to see what’s in store for him.
I am the one who has been left too. I am so sorry! I had a tough conversation with my husband today on the phone. I remember telling him how I will feel if he made it final. He is living with the other person, and to top it off they have a baby! ( I found out about this only 6 months ago)Our son knows nothing about this. He just knows his mom has been miserable on and off for a long time. I told my husband that I will have a hard time just accepting his really moving on, and possibly staying with her, and maybe even adding to their little family. Oh, and of course involving our son in this too. I let him know that I feel as soon as he has what he thinks he wants ( a divorce) that he will be releived, and waste no time getting things his way, and probably not consider how much this still hurts me. All along he has said things that showed me that he does not consider my feelings. Here’s an example: well, “6 years younger is better than 6 years older”, and “why dont you sell our sons crib? your not going to need it.” He admitted that he is capable of doing this. I dont feel very confident right now, and need to build myself up. I know that doing something charitable can be helpful to your healing, and believe that what is built in dirty soil usually does not last. So many believe that their feelings for eachother justify sin.