Question by Rachelle: why isnt my bf over his ex?
I honestly have too much shit to deal with. I’ve been depressed, and i dont think i need this, its just one more problem. I can’t take anymore. I have been completely depressed cause ive got too much things that are just too much for me. He’s suppose to be my comfort, but right now instead, he’s hurting me, he’s not over his ex. He’s told me all about this problem before, and just a week ago he told me he was completely over her, and he seemed like he was in a good mood. i asked “are you sure?” and he just said “yes”. now, i see status message about her saying like this ” i KNO SHE GONE BUT iM STiL HOLDiN ON, STiL SMELL THE SCENT OF HA CLOTHEZ, ONLY GOD KNOWZ THE PAiN. i CRY UNTiL THEREZ NO TEARZ LEFT.” and “AND YOUR BOYFRiEND iZ NOT LiKE ME, MA YOU EVEN WENT AND GOT A TEARDROP LiKE ME. i REMEMBER WE WOULD SiT AT HOME ALL DAY, YOU CALLED m3 BUTTA , i CALLED U BABE.”

I told him, your not over someone arent you. and he replied back “why do you care?” and i was just “whatever nvm” and he said “im over everyone and everything, just stop asking that question” and i sad “okay fine” and he logged off.

THIS IS WHEN I BROKE DOWN AND CRIED.

THE MAIN POINT IS: I can’t take anymore. I’m too depressed, and i dont wanna be left alone by the person I really and unbelivably think is the one. I’m scared of getting hurt, it’s too much for me. I honestly think this could be a commitented relationship. but now, im starting to feel stupid cause im starting to think he doent love me as much as he says he does, or im not as important as i thought i was. does he even love me at all? I DON’T KNOW. all i know is that i can’t take another broken heart, when it’s already been broken and nothing’s left. I don’t wanna be wrong again, like every other relationship ive been in. THIS IS JUST ONE MORE PROBLEM I CAN’T TAKE. AND I’VE HAD ENOUGH AS IT IS.
Braking up with him is one thing i don’t want to do.

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Answer by Joe
You don’t need this guy. He’s moody, he’s rude, and he is not over his ex. He’s not even treating you like he’s interested in you, and that’s unforgivable from a boyfriend. End it now. Find someone better.

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I told him, your not over someone arent you. and he replied back “why do you care?” and i was just “whatever nvm” and he said “im over everyone and everything, just stop asking that question” and i sad “okay fine” and he logged off.

THIS IS WHEN I BROKE DOWN AND CRIED.

THE MAIN POINT IS: I can’t take anymore. I’m too depressed, and i dont wanna be left alone by the person I really and unbelivably think is the one. I’m scared of getting hurt, it’s too much for me. I honestly think this could be a commitented relationship. but now, im starting to feel stupid cause im starting to think he doent love me as much as he says he does, or im not as important as i thought i was. does he even love me at all? I DON’T KNOW. all i know is that i can’t take another broken heart, when it’s already been broken and nothing’s left. I don’t wanna be wrong again, like every other relationship ive been in. THIS IS JUST ONE MORE PROBLEM I CAN’T TAKE. AND I’VE HAD ENOUGH AS IT IS.
Braking up with him is one thing i don’t want to do.

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Answer by Joe
You don’t need this guy. He’s moody, he’s rude, and he is not over his ex. He’s not even treating you like he’s interested in you, and that’s unforgivable from a boyfriend. End it now. Find someone better.

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The dog has been pining all day since my wife left

Question by gone: Isn’t it unfair that some guys get their way with every girl in the world while others can’t get any?
to like them?

And the ones who get all the girls in the world know that they can hop from girl to girl, so they don’t treat their “girlfriend of the moment” right and then the girl wonders why “there are no good men left” when she dates dirtbags while shunning good guys.
“Who ever told you that life was going to be fair?”

Why isn’t life unfair for the people who DESERVE bad things to happen to them, i.e. people who treat their girlfriends like s.h.i.t. and get away with it?

More proof that Satan is winning his war over God.
tredaze, how do you know that they asked for it? I’ve seen girls start talking to ramdom guys, flirting with them, etc. The same girls who would make it KNOWN that they are not interested in me.
JohnnyMusic, when you find that small, molecular area, let me know.

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Answer by Radish
may be u r gay

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Question by ★TouchedByAnAtheist★: What is the best way to tell people your house isn’t a “crash pad”?! I had to kick a good friend out.?
So We had a lil get together at my house. 2 of my friends ended up crashing because they were too drunk and didn’t want them to get a DUI. Another friend lives a couple of city blocks away, her boyfriend lives a lil further, but he doesn’t drive. WE’ll call them daisy and donald.

Daisy and donald have spent the night before because my husband said it was ok, but I’m not ok with that because daisy lives a few blocks away and does not drive. Donald is not allowed at her house. To be honest I dont’ trust Donald I’ve experienced him being and angry drunk on 2 occasions, I”m not comfortable around him I don’t even want him at my house but Daisy is my friend so I let him chill. Now I don’t know where it go twisted and they thought it was OK to just crash here because they “don’t have a ride” and they know I will say no if they as for a ride because If I say yes they expect rides and think its ok just because they give me money, but no it’s not OK that’s why I say know cuz i’m not a taxi and I’m very busy so TIME is an important factor for me.

So my 2 drunk friends crashed out on my floor, therefore leaving no room. I don’t know when or how they assumed they could stay. In fact it was very akward and I tried to be as straigh forward as I could without sounding like a bitch. The lights went out, I was turning the computer off. I was locking up and I asked them, “well what are you guys gonna do? I have to lock up my gates.” They were like well, “ugh well go ahead and crash out, we’re just gonna chill” It was like 2 am.

I thought I was very clear when I asked them what their plans were I mean I was turning everything off!. They go outside to my patio furniture and donald is like, “look at all that beer that john left” so they were obviously planning to keep drinking outdoors till the sunrose! I felt reall stepped on and disrespected,.

I went out there and told them I don’t know what you guys are planning but YOU CAN’T CHILL HERE.

DAISY was obviously upset they both left. So now daisy is saying she doesn’t know why I kicked them out and that I’m mad at her. Yes I’m mad that i made it pretty clear they couldn’t stay, and its not like she had to go very far, may be he did but that is NOT my problem. I don’t know when he got things mixed up and thinks that he’s very welcome here. So I have to talk to her and I don’t know how to say it without her getting all defensive. ‘
I obviously have to talk to her because she’s also saying to mutual friends that she was confused and that I was random for telling them to leave, and that she HAD to wait for a cab at 2 in the morning on the street! Well she didn’t have to do any of that, she could have gone home!! It’s not that far just a hop and a skip
My mistake is that the first time he got really angry drunk and slammed her against the parking lot wall, I should have said OK he’s NOT allowed in my home. That night I thought she was over it because she was crying so bad and obviosly he physically hurt her. But looking back I should have told her that he’s just not allowed in my house I didn’t expect her to to stay with him.
Well he’s the type to offer gas and then forget he offered and not give you anything.

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Answer by Angela Claire
Tell her that you kicked them out because your husband didn’t want them there. Tell her that you feel stepped on and disrespected.

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My question is about “THE MARRIAGE” – the wife has a choice to stay and work on marriage or divorce the cheater & the husband either has to end affair if he wants to work on marriage. Right? BUT what if he doesn’t end the affair & expresses to the wife that he won’t end his extra marital relationship.

Then who is responsible to take action? Husband or Wife? And again, why are you so hard on the mistress if this was HIS decision? What is the mistress to do if she cares for him.

This is really my life for the last 2years so mature & serious answers please. Not rant-n-raving from wives because i’m not your husbands mistress.
I can’t fix what I didn’t break. He was living alone before we meet. He presued me. Yes, I made the decision to date a SEPARATED man.
Wives please admit that when the marriage fails it often has nothing to do with the mistress & everything to do with you & your husband.