by the Italian voice

Question by Enjay: He’s told me we probally wont be together in a year?
I love my boyfriend,we have been together for almost a year.
We have had ups and down’s,like most couples.
A few months ago,he told me that hes hoping to go to the university of essex,and that if he gets in,hes staying there and that he doesn’t know if we can be together when he goes to uni.
( He’s two years older than me )
Having told me before,that he wants to be with me his whole life,he wants my future,he doesn’t want to be without me? Hes now said this,and I said Okay,So we have a year left together,and i’ve been trying to just forget what he said.
But its not working,and everyday i’m just hanging around,loving him more and more,sometimes thinking ” ok,so how many weeks have i got left..”
I know its important to appreciate the time you DO have with someone,and I am.But im conscious that in a years time I am going to be completely and utterly lost.

Help?!

Best answer:

Answer by wl
I wouldn’t waste too much time on him if he’s already set an “expiration date” on your relationship. He’s basically saying he doesn’t want to be tied down to you because he wants to party and do whatever once he’s gone and not have any commitments. If you still want to hang out with him that would be okay, but I wouldn’t miss out on a better guy because your waiting out the year.

Add your own answer in the comments!

Question by Miss Fantastic: Should they know they got together?
For a variety of reasons, I’m awake at obscenely early hours. Last night, my (male) roommate and a girlfriend of a different one of my (male) friends came back to our place to chill. They were pretty drunk. They ended up getting a little physical, making out and shirts came off, but stopped there.

Afterward, they slept it off in separate rooms. When waking up, the guy had no idea anything happened at the end of last night and the girl had perhaps a vague idea. She asked before she left, “Did anything weird happen with (the non-boyfriend) last night?”

I don’t think any good will come of them knowing, but is the truth worth the drama?
I know and am friends with all three.

I submit it to you, Yahoo Answers advisers.
Should I tell them what happened?

Best answer:

Answer by Night Skies Fading
Of course you should. They just made out, it’s no big deal so I don’t see why it should be kept a secret from them.

Give your answer to this question below!

Question by warweaver: Finally put the pieces together?
Long story short. 4 years ago my wife started cheating on me with a friend of mine. 3 years ago I finally get sick of her insanity and move out. She drove me out really with her irrational behavior. She had lied to me and I never knew that she had cheated, in fact, i never even suspected it. She blamed the fact that she didn’t want to try to make it work because, “i left” and she could never trust me again.

So I had been carrying around this guilt that it was all my fault if only I hadn’t left etc… Well, 10 days ago my friend tells me that he had been with my ex wife for a year during and 2 years after my wedding ended. Karma got him though because she did the exact same thing to him.

In his case, it was obvious she was cheating whereas in mine it was not. However, he still had doubts, he couldn’t be sure. So I confronted her and she apologized for what she had done to me. So I ask her about the other fella’ and she denied having cheated on him. But she’s lying. Im confused now.
Well. There’s another part see. She blamed me for everything, said I was a horrible person and I believed her for three years. 10 days ago I discovered the truth and confronted her, then I confronted him. He felt terrible about it but was very forthcoming. Basically though, when I found out the truth I honestly felt like I had restarted the healing process. She’s also lying to the guy so he’s making a puzzle thats missing the most important piece. I feel like everyone should have the information they need to heal, so, I jacked her phone records using her cell # which she gave me and a password that he somehow knew and had mentioned. I broke down 2 years’ worth of her calls which reveal obviously and clearly that she’s a cheating liar. Im strugging at the moment because I still feel very deeply for her and we had worked things out at least friendship wise. But I had to admit cracking her account b/c lying is no way to start – so her irrational hatred started all over again.

Best answer:

Answer by mother of 2
I am not sure what your question is? She sheated on you and more than likely cheated on oyur buddy. I am not sure if you wanna stay buddies with that guy anyways because he was with your ex but never said anything until now about it. I would just drop this guy as a friends and drop your ex. STOP talking to them both. You will never more on if you continue to talk to her. Change your phone number and email if you have to! YOu seem to need drama, you need to stop with the drama. She’s a slut! Get over it and move on. Unless you want to hear over and over how she hurt you and who she screwed, then you have more serious issues to address with a therapist

Know better? Leave your own answer in the comments!

This happened 2 years ago and they’re still together today. He still keeps asking me to have sex.