and i feel like my life is over i cant hav a family anymore and our son is going bak and forth between us i was tryin to be there forher still after all of this but recentally she told me she had slept with some other guy now i even more hurt and i have to see her all the time i dont know what im going to to i dont think i can be there for her anymore i hate my life now im so lost
convert to Islam, move to Saudi Arabia, then if the next wife talks about divorce you can file for a court order to have her fkin tongue cut out. Alls well that ends well brother.
Wow. I know this isn’t going to help right now but to be honest, you are better off without that woman in your life. You will understand that one of these days when you have had a chance to heal. The problem is with the son, I know that is heart wrenching. Spend as much time as you can with your child. My kids were raised without their dad in their life and it hurt them terribly. Even if it’s hard and even if it seems impossible, never give up on your child. He needs his dad to be the strong one. One day you’ll look back and be glad that you were there for him. Nobody deserves to be hurt by their spouse. She is a self centered woman.
move on. Yea it hurts and sucks. Believe me , i know. She has already slept with another man. You have to step up and be a man and father to your child. Start dating, get out more, dress better, clean yourself up. Don’t let her know anymore than she needs to know. Keep all receits and a log of calls and pictures of everything. This will help you in court. I feel for you man. Just hang in there. Some one better is waiting for you out there. You just have to find them.
So you feel like your life is over because of a women? Oh God…if u think she is worth ur life then off your self… your not thinking of your kid obviously.. so that makes u just as selfish as her for cheating on u… u married a B!tch….move on and show her u can do better instead of whin like a child.. atleast stay strong for ur son if u dont care about ur self!
I know and I understand where you’re coming from…but your life is NOT over. Far from it, my friend! You have a little boy who thinks the world of you and you will be his father for the rest of his life. Nobody can take that away from you and any time spent with him is time spent as a family. The two of you are a family.
You do have some choices to make though. Do you want to try to win her back or are you done? If you do want to try reconciling with her you do have the fact that the two of you have a child together on your side. You will never be completely out of her life, no matter what she wishes. As far as her “not loving you any more”…BS! She might not want to love you any more or she might be angry at you or she might be bored with the relationship but feelings like that never really go away. They may be buried for some time either by anger or choice but they don’t go away.
As far as this other guy…don’t worry. He will screw up. They always do and rebound relationships never work. Give her time to realize what she has done and to miss you and the family that you had. don’t beg or plead…don’t let her see you sad or depressed or crying. Focus on your son any time you see her and be happy for him…happy that you can spend time with him and be strong for him. Don’t give her the satisfaction of knowing that you are hurt from what she has done. Pull yourself together the best way you can. Get out of the house and spend time around people but most of all look at your little boy and be strong for him.
As far as “being there for her”…I’m not sure what you mean by that but I would limit all contact with her unless it has to do with your son. Put on a smile and be happy if you see her or if she calls…don’t give her the satisfaction. Life is worth living, my friend…wish I could do more!