How am I supposed to take this? She also says she is single even though the papers aren’t official till Feb 28th. She’s 22 btw. She said she had a new lease on life with me just on October 31st. I just don’t get it…
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She’s been watching too much Oprah.
Should of signed a Preen-up.
throw a bucket of cold water on her, bang her friend, move on.
You need to see an attorney to protect your rights.
As far as the new lease on life ? She is just telling you she is moving on and starting her life over.
Peace.
I’m so sorry man, don’t worry. go down to your local ba and drink a couple of sam adams.
She’s only 22! Maybe she realized there’s more to life than settling down so young. That she doesn’t need a man to take care of her in order to survive and be happy.
It’s a hard thing to get, but I think you’ll find that it’s a blessing in disguise. If she filed for divorce three days after she left you, I would guess that leaving had been on her mind for a very long time. It’s not a question of WHEN she left, but for how long she had been unhappy.
I really believe that as time passes you will understand and find someone with who you are more well suited for the long haul. I honestly think there’s a lot she hasn’t told you. Good luck.
It is her loss, not yours..move on and find something better..
It shouldn’t be hard to get. Since she left you she feels single and is loving it. A new lease on life usually means that a positive change has taken place and the person feels like a new person because of it.
Sounds like some serious lack of communication between you two, and probably a bit of immaturity on her part. Unfortunately, there’s not a lot you can do since you can’t control her feelings and actions. Sorry. And she’s married until the divorce is final, just like she was single until the marriage ceremony took place.
She got married too young -
You shouldn’t be married if you are as clueless as you claim. You need to learn to understand what your mate thinks.
when someone up and decides they no longer want to be with you it can be devastating. but after that storm the sun does come out. she made her decision, do not fight it. accept it and move on. if you need help get it. you never know, she could have given you the best gift ever – time will tell. i am sincerely sorry that you have to go through this though. it stings for a while, the pain subsides and you will feel stronger. good luck. hugs.
Gosh, no one at 22 should be married. I don’t know how long you’ve been married but, that is pretty young to take on the responsibility of marriage, household and limited freedom. Our brains don’t even mature until we’re at least in our mid to late 20s and experiences we process through life is what helps us to develop relationship skills so that when we do get married, we can adapt and adjust our personalities and characters to fit in as a couple and not a single. She must have been unhappy for awhile, and don’t blame yourself…it was probably more about her then you. So grieve the relationship and move on. I promise, you will not die and eventually, you heart will beat again for someone new who is more mature and on your page then this girl was. Stay strong, this too shall pass.
Maybe she married you for what you had? Not what you are?
Better luck next time mate
well u need to sit her down and find out what has been so inspiring that she feels she cannot experience her new lease on live with u. discuss whether or not she feels like u have been holding her back or that she hasn’t been experiencing life because marriage does not need to come across like a ball and chain. and u deserve to get some answers…
couples travels, couples develop together, couples can boost each other to reach higher limits….so saying that she has a “new lease on life” does not mean she needs to drop everything within the life she has now..it could be that she needs to try harder to change the life she has…so really open up your ears and listen to what she has to say..point out the above facts…and if she does not want to talk to u about this then unfortunately…it will be a battle lost
It will be her next excuse when she divorces again I am sure. Look at her family do they have a high divorce rate ? Obviously she wasn’t mature enough to handle a marriage see if you can get the marriage anulled you will be happy you did. Since she told you she is single kinda drives the point that she wants to be single in a hurry for a reason. Responsible intellegent people never run out of a marriage just so they can become single. I would not enter into a relationship with anyone for awhile til you can look at yourself and feel good about yourself as a person. This is the worst time you will find to go looking for another relationship let her do so and set back and watch and be glad she left when she did because you are lucky it was short. Love her as a person and it’s ok to feel sorry for her. Above all else be very glad that she showed her true colors early. Someone up there must have been looking out for you. A lot of people are not so lucky as you have been. I say go do something kewl with a friend keep your mind busy and occupied and act as if she never even was a thought in your life.
What she really means is that she had somebody on the side for awhile, and now she is ready to start a new life with the other guy, sorry…