Question by : My wife says I “don’t deserve to sleep in the same bed” with her, why is she being like this?
The last week of my marriage has been really tough. First, my wife caught me drinking her breast milk and flipped out. Then, she accused me of having a homosexual affair with my gay best friend, Raymond. She left home for a night, but came back (Thank God).
Tonight she caught me smelling her underwear while I was doing the laundry, and now she just told me that she checked my cell phone and saw that I was talking to Ray-Ray when she SPECIFICALLY told me not to.
I cook for her, I clean for her, I work so hard to provide for her, and Esme refuses to sleep with me. She will tease me, making me rub her feet for an hour, and then just roll over and go to bed. I was SO happy because last night she let me give her “Southern Kisses,” but nothing more!
Now she says that I still “can’t be trusted,” and that I “will be sleeping on the couch until I demonstrate that I can be.”
Why is she being like this? Is she trying to make me want a divorce (I would never divorce her because I love her and we have a daughter that is only six mo. old)?
I’ll do anything to keep my marriage together – please give me some advice [no rude comments, please - I cannot take them right now].
Best answer:
Answer by Rosa J
Err….Jeremiah….Hon?
You actually found Lilf, offensive for asking about her lawn being mowed?
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i think you should talk to her about this. Just say what you said her.
Somewhere along the way you have broken her trust. However her teasing you with sex’s and then wit holding it is also cruel. My advice see marriage therapy and work on your marriage if you are devoted to staying with her.
Have a man move in as her treat. Then quit asking these dumb ass questions you will both be happy
i’m sorry but you just left this wide open…are you kidding us or what? WTF…this is really very humorous….stop rubbing her damn feet and stop sniffing her panties…stop hanging out with ray-ray all together if you want to stay in your marriage..oh brother
Both of you need to see a Marriage Counselor if you want your marriage to work
smelling panties doesn’t make you gay just listen to what she says for a while but a least she let you give her southern kisses . but still she should be happy you want her and only her because other men would have cheated . maybe you should talk to her after she cools off
she is being like this because you stole from your own child. Breast milk is a big-deal….:)
she is MESS AROUND and trying to make you think its you….. you, need to start to look into her SHIT… SEE, WHAT YOU FIND.
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You think you can get away with drinking breast milk, having a buddy/buddy relationship with a gay friend, smelling her underwear and to top it all off playing french maid, no you can’t. I think there is something very wrong with you and you need to address it, rather than questioning why she is reacting the way she is.
You should feel blessed you are still in the house, if you were my husband, I would have asked for a separation until you got your cables checked, and I am not joking nor trying to sound rude, I am just trying to help you.
Unless she sees that you are trying to help yourself and seek professional help, she will never trust you. If you really love your wife and want to make your marriage work, tell her you are willing to see a marriage counselor. Nothing less would convince me.
Ok, I thought the milk drinking thing was a little odd, but the homosexual affair? What the heck? You don’t see anything wrong with this? It’s bad enough that you are having an affair, but a homosexual one? And what is up with the underwear sniffing? And I don’t even think I want to know what “Southern kisses” are. If you are serious, you should get some counseling. Your daughter deserves to have a normal father.