not a decent wife left home w/ her kids , quit job but able get a new car ,but i suffer with bills.?
My not a decent wife, left this marriage. she’s the type that would enjoy bizarre drama. I quit my lucrative job out of state, so I moved where she is,3 years ago. I worked 2-3 jobs trying to keep up with her spending habits; debt after debt, bills piled everywhere; but nothing made her happy. I didn’t cheat, I didn’t go out with friends, and still I couldn’t live up to her and her kids expectations. Her children especially the two younger ones saw this, heard this, and yet they turn against me. I worked nights yet was at every ballgame, every performance, every award ceremony. always there,for them but supportive. She has filled them with hate and disrespect, after she walk out with her children, not hearing from her for 3 weeks, she got a new car without a job, she call me but blocked her number and hang up. just last week she calls, told me to let her know if she get a refund check in the mail. 2day she text me 4 the need of money for gas.not drivin 26 miles to give her money
shawna w on
wow you deserve better she still wants to use you dont let here
Stop being a door mat….. she is a loser and a user and always will be.
It’s time to think of yourself and free yourself from that blood sucking leach.
You deserve better and I know there are many good women out there that would treat you like a king.
Good Luck!!
you say “her children”. sounds like you are not their dad. wow, you are going to be angry for a very long time. and i can’t blame you one bit if you are. if those are not your children, then she’s on her own. if you would give her the money if she lived next door, then mail her the money instead. cut your losses now, and learn your lessen. do keep in mind she can be made responsible for half of the debt once you two are in the process of the divorce.
go see a therapist. it won’t solve your problem overnight, but it will help you clear your head so you can pick yourself up alot better then without one.
Dude, first of all it sounds like she is trying to her you, she doesn’t have to call you for the refund check, she can easily fill out a change of address from online and forward all her mail. Also If they are not your kids, then why not just lay out the law and if she doesn’t like it then leave her. She has 3 kids, ITS MAD HARD TO GET REMARRIED WITH THREE KIDS. It seems like to me she is trying to yank your chain and make you beg her to come back. She knows that if she loses you no other guy would take on the responsibility of her kids spending and hers. No matter how little they are. If I were you you can play this game also. Wait 2 more weeks and send her a letter telling her that there is no need for you to sit in an empty apartment and if she is not planning to come back then you are going to move out and her stuff is going to be in jeopardy if she isn’t going to pick it up. Make your letter very nice and quick to the point, don’t be nasty or hateful and don’t seem like your begging her or that your the victim. Be very cold and professional.
she is not happy with herself so she will never be happy with anyone else i feel sorry for the kids but she made her bed let her sleep in it. dude dont let her use you anymore move on and find someone that will love you the way you deserve to be loved. someone that will be good to you and will help you with bills not someone that is trying to make herself happy at your expense. pay off the bills she accumulated and move on and stop letting people walk all over the top of you.
You say “her kids”??? I guess you just got taken for a ride by a gold digger. Live and learn and find someone better the next time. Go back to your lucrative job out of state and good luck. Don’t be such a sucker next time.
wow.. divorce her you deserve better than that.. and if that check does come in the mail. mark on it return to sender ( moved)
why would u put up with a person who disrespects u like this after u have done everything for her. u need to focus on your life and future and distance yourself from this ungrateful woman. guess u expected to be treated as fairly and good as u treated her, but its just not going to happen. quit trying to please what u can’t please. she is a user and will use u for as long as she can, get some self confidence. a person will treat u the way u teach them to treat u. accept her for who she is and get away from her and make a new life for yourself. she really doesn’t deserve a man as caring as yourself.
Life’s definitely not fair. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Good luck.