Ok she left me cause she said that she want’s to think about it and on monday i tried 2 talk 2 her but she hurt me sooo bad….ok should i send her a txt msg saying happy birthday or just let it go?
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Send a text
depends .. if you still have feeling for her then drop a message .. do not call and be pushy .. let her make up her mind .. there is slight difference in pursuing somebody or being pushy ..
skip it
In my opinion, it depends on how you actually left things. But sending her a simple text message, something like “Happy Birthday Name, best wishes on your 30th (replace age)” – wont hurt. It shows that shes important enough for you to remember her birthday but it doenst make u look desperate either. I’d go with it tbh – it’s a woman you’ve spent years with and however things are atm, she did (or still does) play an important part in your life/
Good luck mate!
Yeah, if you two are used to texting each other, then it would be ok to send her a text saying simply “happy birthday” and that’s it. Then let it go at that.
You let it go. I am going to tell you, unless you did something unforgivable and she is thinking about that, she is done with you. Don’t let her rule you even when she is not there. Unless you cheated on her or something that awful, she is not wanting this relationship. Don’t run around after her and cater to her even when she doesn’t want you. You need to move on and let it go. She wouldn’t wish you happy birthday if it was yours – Guaranteed!
If she left you and then hurt you so bad on Monday, what do you think? Find someone who appreciates you more or just resolve to be single. She evidently doesn’t appreciate you and you will have nothing but more stress hanging around with her.
Yo Man i know what heart break is lol i spent many days on the liquor bottle and all i can say is man its her bday u can msg her and maybe she will see it smile and have a happyer day and she will probly give u a second chance some day or maybe soon or u can go with ur natural live and try sum new things and u will have fun u seek what u want so if u chose one or the other theres no loss so my recomendations would be for u to say is “heyy im just msging u to say happy birthday want to go out to dinner?”hope this helps mate
Stay away from her and let her “think about it”. Don’t try to get her to come back to you. Don’t wish her happy anything. She’s not worth it.
Start going out and having a good time. Forget her. You cant control her. She’s gonna do whatever she wants to do. That’s that.
Don’t call her, and don’t try to get her to speak or talk to you. If she threatens you with the divorce, tell her you’ll get an attorney. Make her crawl back to you or go away. Either way you’ll be the winner.
If you really want to regain your broken marriage, then celebrate her birthday in a way she can’t even imagine. Send her flowers, gifts etc and whatever it takes to tell her that you still love her more. Surely you will have a lovable life forever with her.
If you don’t want to regain your broken marriage then stop it with a txt message.
If the above doesn’t workout, please watch the movie FIREPROOF for once. Give it a try, You are not going to lose anything but u would gain the greatest gift from God i.e your wife.
Go with what YOU truly want. If you really want to wish her a happy birthday and you are sincere, then tell her. The past is the past. Life is short.
Dear every little move you make now will matter a lot.
Don’t just let her go.
Send her flowers without thinking again.
Give it a try before you regret it after years…
Also write her a message in the flowers…”I wish we could spend the day together”
It really hurts to see couple breaking up. Realize the value of marriage and love.
Seems like you still want to be with her. So give it a shot. Though she is angry with you but she’ll be hurt if you don’t care to wish her.
Good Luck!
Well, since she was your wife, you can at least be courteous and send a a happy birthday card and/or text. i wouldn’t say too much deep stuff because she’s obviously trying to own the controller right now but be a gentleman. Respect her and your relationship and at least send her a card. But I don’t suggest doing much more than that because she obviously wants some space right now. Thoughtful is good.Any more is begging her back, and that’s no no because she left you.
Depends.. are u wanting your wife to come back to u? if the answer is yes.. then todays her bday time to lay it on thick.. more then a text message.. if its looking more and more like this is the end and theres not going to be a reconcilliation, then just send her a text to be civil since she is still tech. your wife.. and if nothing else its the “right” thing to do ..
If you hope to win her heart ever again at any point in the future, you really must acknowledge her birthday. I think you should send her a card and flowers at least. If there is serious hope for a reconciliation, then this would be the ideal excuse to invite her out for a meal together too, which may well be the catalyst for reconnecting on a romantic and emotional level. It’s a perfect opportunity, don’t miss it. Let her see that inviting you back into her life would be an attractive option.
If, however, your intention for the future is to free yourself of this woman altogether, then you don’t need to mention her birthday, and unless you have children together, it would be best to completely let it go.
Don’t send her a text message – that is so not gonna get her attention!
Send her some roses, send her a poem you literally wrote, send her a digital photo album that you’ve made of your life together – but don’t send her a text.
If you decide to do anything – do it with your heart put forward.
She left you for a reason – so obviously – you’ve hurt her bad also. So put your big boy underwear on – and either fight for your love – or start moving on.
Whatever you decide to do – good luck.