we got back together,i love her so i forgave her,but i am having trouble trusting again.she has done nothihg to make me not trust her.i feel like i am doing somthing wrong.she is a good wife,person,partner and friend.i feel like she deserves my trust,but i dont know how to trust.will somone please give me som advice?thanks.
You are not in the wrong she is, it sounds like she played you, and it’s obviously working if you took her back, whats to say she won’t leave you for the next guy she meets online. It also sounds like your her in between guy who she goes to in between online boyfriends and i would not put up with it.
Its not you. She has to earn your trust again, and this will take a while. Youre actually being quite sane, staying on guard.
This is why a lot of people just move on.. the suspicion drives you crazy, even if unwarranted. Once that bond of trust is broken, betrayal is very hard to overcome. You do damage to yourself trying to live with it
Once the trust in a relationship is broken, it’s very hard to get it back. Have you tried marriage counseling? I really don’t know how else to get trust back but it’s a great start! Best of luck to you!
Once you forgave her for what she did you really have to let it be in the past, As hard as that is you have to look past what happened, and give her the benefit of the doubt seeing as you forgave her already. But at the same time you don’t want to leave yourself open to get hurt again
well, if you take her back you are accepting that whatever she did you forgave her. There may be some trust issues but by taking her back you’re gonna have to put all that emotional pain and hurt behind you if she is indeed what you really want back in your life. Good luck and I wish you guys the best!
well, thats not surprising, its bcause you people had a break in relationship and also due to another man, it will take time again to built that trust and that relationship, give it time and give yourself time too, you have had it rough, now it will take you time to get back into things
talk to her openly and tell her about your feelings, it will help her to understadn you better and make the relationsip work better, ask her to be patient and be patient yourself too, these things are matters of heart and heart takes a long time to heal, dont worry its natural
see http://www.aboutdivorce.org/blog/social-networking-websites-%e2%80%93-another-reason-for-increasing-divorce-rate for a better understanding how how these thigns take place