Question by Shush Up: Did my boyfriend’s wife have the right to curse me out now, after all this time?
For three years, I’ve been having an affair with a married man named Brian. He told me that his wife was the problem, not him. He told me that he wanted to get away from her but he didn’t want to break their children’s hearts. Eight months ago, Brian finally left his wife for me. I was very happy at first but as soon as he moved into my house, he changed into a horrible person. After eight months, I finally kicked Brian out of my house. He made me fall out of love with him. My 11 year old son hates his a s s anyway. I just got tired of his games and him coming home all hours of the night. I’m fed up with being abused, lied to and cheated on. Karma hit me hard for stealing another woman’s husband.
I have put up with this for too long. I have learned my lesson, I’m tired of being second and I’m sick of the hell he put me through. So, I told Brian to leave. But today, his wife sent me a message on Facebook cursing me out. It was a vulgar and LONG message but to keep it summarized, she called me a stupid whore who destroyed her family and marriage. And now she’s in love with somebody else and her husband is begging her to take him back. She wants to know why I didn’t keep Brian since I “worked so hard” to take him from her.
Well, the answer is, I saw a different side of this man once he moved into my house. A man like that doesn’t belong anywhere near my child. That’s why my son doesn’t even visit HIS father! So, did she have a right to curse me out like that? And I’m confused as to why she did it anyway. Any idea?
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Answer by clayton
This gal has been on a emotional roller coaster for some time. Chances are she is not thinking straight at the moment. Give her a little slack.
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He is Jerk.She was right to curse u.You shouldnt got married man.
It doesn’t matter how long ago this happened, it still did destroy her family. Think of how you would feel in the same situation, you would definitely want to state your piece.
yes she has every right and karama did hit u back women like u annoy me if he done it to her hell do it too u.
She is mad obviously, heartbroken, and miserable. I do not think it was right for her to do it, because that is scooping down all the way down, and as an ex wife she should have kept her dignity. Now more so it does sound like you went through hell already and realized your mistake (i hope u learned) and I am pretty sure you did not engage on the relationship alone so both you and the guy are to blame, in the end She should be mad at him, because it was him who cheated and left, if he hadn’t done it then she should still be with him. Don’t feel so guilty and now your priority is your son take care of him =)
She no doubt put up with the same exact things you did! She finally got rid of him & now he wants to come back. Of course she doesn’t want him back as she now has someone else herself. I just feel she’s mad because he’s no doubt driving her crazy, she’s taking it ALL out on you period. She sure doesn’t want him either but is taking it out on you because you are the one he left her for, you’re the only one she can take anything/everything out on. Stop & think about it. IF she was “so in love” with her “husband”, could she honestly have fallen in love with someone in the matter of only 8 mons.?! I don’t know about you, but I know I couldn’t have. I just feel she took out all her aggressions out on you for everything. She sure as heck should not have done it on Face Book. Hopefully you soon be able to put the whole saga behind you & find true happiness with the rite person…the best to you…:)
HELL YES, SHE HAS A RIGHT TO CURSE YOU OUT. Serves you RIGHT! He was not YOUR man to take! Karma is WONDERFUL!
Sush,
Its not about him or his wife. Its about you. What allowed you to stoop so low to that level. What in you was broken to the point of thinking it is ok to take 2nd best.
You dont deserve that – never. And your son doesnt need to see you move men in and out. Have the self respect to settle down and find your own stability and man.
Grow from this.
She has a right to cuss you out cause you slept with her husband. She sort of is innocent cause you crossed her line. If i were you i would beg for her forgiveness and move on.