Question by Noneya Jones: How do I stop feeling depressed over a guy who will not communicate with me?
i need some advice about a guy I was involved with. Well this particular guy, we met each other at a company I used to work for a few years ago.Just to give you a little background about him,he has been a security guard for almost 12 years and a security guard supervisor for over 2 years.He has a certificate as a chef, but does it on the side, he also lives with his friend, where he roommates which so happens to be in the same building as his baby mother, he was married five years ago, but his wife left him, and he admitted to cheating on her, and he said she cheated on him.He has been accused of sexual harrassment with the company I used to work for.He has a 10 year old son, that he takes care of, etc

So about us, we were intimately involved and he raised some suspensions at the start when we first met.For instance, he stays in the same apartment building as his childs mother, and the apartment building directory has his name registered but I found out after we were intimate. Some of the weird things he would do is, for example,he would call up to my job in the middle of the night and hang up, or he would got through old co workers that know me and sort of question them about me.H also sent stuff to my apartment with his name on it. He also tracked me through my job, and hacked into my personal /work email.So anyhow we became involved and he broke it off with me November 2009 and I told him to never called me, the next day, this dude is prank calling my cell, I changed my number, he prank calls my job number and cell, starts sending me prank emails, so I sort of started to track the facebook requests by creating a fake profile and interacting with the “whomever” is behind the fake profiles to try and find out who is behind this, so come to find out its him.So on these fake profiles hes putting on the facebook pages that hes in love with me, and he cant stop thinking about me, but when I would call him I would get no answer,or he acts uninterested,

We recently got back together and he told me that “I cannot pop up over his house” otherwise he will get a restraining order, when we are intimate he never spends the night,when I call him during the day for the most part he doesnt answer, until he goes to work,the few times we went out, it was always after work, and when we are intimate, he never spends the night,he has to go, and he seems like he has to rush and leave, so a few days ago, I broke it off, I told her I was tired of hm only calling when hes at work, and how I didnt appreciate him flaking, so I told him to never contact me because he flaked out on me a few times, , and he starts to prank call my phone, and my new job number, hes creating fake facebook profiles, saying that “he s sorry” and he cant stop thinking about me” and I mean this guy is up at 2, 3 , 4 o clock all day long on facebook putting this stuff out here.. and I Tried texting him this afternoon, and I get no response What is wrong with this dude?

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Answer by brandidy56
I only got through the half your second paragraph, but whatever you need to know, bottm line, the guys a stalker and obsessed and if hes making you depressed that cant be a healthy relationship, you have to do what makes you happy and if he doesnt…well..break it off permanently Good Luck!

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