by krynsky

Question by ITwontBoverU: She left me 2 days before my Bday?
I cannot believe I’m on answers. Why am I on? what relief will I get? I don’t know, none probably.

I loved her. Really I did. With every once of me I loved her. For three years she told me the same, “I love you more than anything” she would tell me. I put my life, my soul, my everything in her.

I had to leave for a few months, it was torture to leave, but I vowed I would return to her again. I called her every chance I got. Emailed her, tried everything I knew how to tell her at least once more, “I love you”.

Then the day came, I returned. It seemed like heaven again. We went to my bestfriend’s wedding, I was the best man, and she was the maid of honor. After the wedding we spent the rest of the day together, talking about the future. I was so blind.

The next day, we were walking together when she said to me, “Do you think it would be so bad if we were just friends?” Shocked is not the word to describe me at the time, I was frozen in an unspeakable terror of losing her. I asked why, but she never said. “I don’t know, I just feel like I have to do this” That wasn’t good enough. How could she do this? After everything we had been through, had I done something wrong? had I not done something I should’ve? had the 4 months I was away really been too long for her? had she found someone else? It didn’t matter. She made it clear, she did not want me anymore.

Two days later, I had the most miserable birthday a man could ever have. Filled with vain, empty “Happy Birthday” smiles, and cold, soulless “Happy Birthday” laughs.

Nothing I could do would bring her back to me, so I left her alone. To gather herself, maybe she needed the space to breath, to think. Every part of me was in pain for her. Every inch of me needed her to come back, but she would not. Instead, three months later she announced engagement to someone else, a friend of mine whom I entrusted everything to. I was so blind. Such a fool was I.

Now I’m here, utterly alone. Drowned by the crowd of a million people, my voice cannot be heard. “My love! My love! I need you! I love you!” it cries, but it will fall on deaf ears. Now I am forced to walk a lonesome road, trying desperately to salvage the pieces of a shattered heart. I was so blind. Such a fool. So alone now.

Tell your wife you love her if you do. Tell your husband you love him, if you do. Tell your girlfriend, your boyfriend. Or tell them if you have a problem with them if thats the case. But please, do not be cruel… do not tell them they have your love if they do not. There is a greater pain then love lost: not knowing you lost it.

Why? why do I still love her? This is too much.

Best answer:

Answer by Louella R
Yes, it sounds like you got it bad for her and she went on to another life

You are hurt and disappointed ..the best thing to do is keep in touch with her..she may change her mind..women always have the last say in a relationship..it is the women’s prerogative to sow some wild oats and see if she likes the new crop..if not..she may come back to you..sadder Budweiser..keep your chin up and wait for her and in the mean times try to just move on with your life..she is..that is for sure.

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