We were married with two lovely kids a boy and a girl after a little while she begin to desplay some funny characters to cut the whole story short she is now in a hotel prostituting at thesame time asking to come back.As a born again christain we ought to forgive and i’m now considering her back but for that kid of a thing i find it difficult to forgive her.PLS HELP
Just so you know forgiving is GREAT but it’s not a ticket back into one’s life.
You can forgive and keep her at bay.
a great test of your faith. it is not you who will fogive her it is the grace of jesus whom you believe as god and savior who will give you the strength do it. you can read the story of the prophet hosea and learn from him.
Forgiveness and letting her back into your life are not tied together.
She is asking to come back because she does not like her current situation and yours is a step up from it. However, this does not address the issue that she left you in the first place. She left you because your situation was also not good enough at the time. She just happened to land into a worse one, which is why she wants back now. I would not let a prostitute into my home with my two children in it. You are the responsible parent and need to take care of them (since your ex wife is really not willing or in a position to do so). You can forgive her alright, everyone can make a mistake; just don’t let her back into your home. There are plenty of shelters that will take her while she sorts herself out. Perhaps in the future, 3-5 years from now, she will realize what she gave up and be clean/sober/responsible and mature enough so that you two can revisit the option of getting back, Right now, you are only looking at chaos for you and your children.
Get the kids back and send her packing.
Personally, and I live by this, unless someone truly asks for forgiveness, you do not have to forgive them.
I’d be afraid that she would be bring back some disease if she has been a prostitute. Yikes!
How can you forgive her?
IF she’s home late again then you mind might be like ” where is she? Is she cheating on me again? Where is she!!!” and i Don’t know about you but I wouldn’t want to be living like this.
forget that!!! there is no forgiveness for that.. move on your kids will be fine