i need someone to vent to. i am alone at my home with jsut my dog after 8 years of marriage, she took the kids and left yesterday. i really need someone to speak to. email me and we can exchange numbers. i do not know how to start over. santosjuan1234@yahoo.com
what happened? why did she leave?
Start with a six pack of coronas! welcome to the club of broken hearts. It will get better with time but you do need to vent.
Guess this is cheaper then therpy
Give yourself time to grieve the loss before you move on. You will regret it if you dont. Too many people are too quick to jump into another relationship. It ends in disaster. If you want a sucessful relationship heed my advice.
I am sorry, I feel your pain, my wife left me too, over 3 yrs ago, Jesus loves us so much that He died on the cross for our sins, He came to give us life, and life more abundently, all He wants is you to invite Him into your heart, He will comfort you, strenghten you…etc….God is love
First, you should evaluate the situation and figure out what caused her to leave and if she will be coming back. Next, y’all should talk out the differences and get her back to the house. If y’all love each other, y’all will work it out for the best.
Did you do something to make her leave (cheat, lie, a criminal act, batter her, etc.)? Did she leave you a message or a note, explaining WHY she left? Are you certain that you want to start over…or would you like to try and get your family back?
Before you can start over, you have to get things in order. Assuming she left and the door is closed, you still have to give yourself time to be sad about your marriage ending, work out details on the house and property and most importantly, figure out how to cause your kids the least amount of pain.
Check for a support group in your area, talk to a friend, keep a journal, exercise, avoid alcohol and new women just yet. Step back, think about what ended it, and then make a new plan.
Good Luck
Try to contact her and tell her how you feel. Ask God for guidance. Ask her if counseling is an option. Tell her exactly how you feel. Women like to feel reassured. Good Luck!!!
i am sorry to hear that your wife left. 2years ago i too felt your pain when my husband left me and my two children. One thing i can tell you though dont start drinking life will go on with out her. If she couldnt stick with you through the thick and the thin for better or worse then she is not worth your heart ache. I am not going to tell you that it will get better because sometimes it doesnt but like all aspects of life their are ups and downs and there are ways to get through them no matter how hard or how easy it may be. You are not alone in this battle that life has thrown at you just now but you will make it through if you want to bad enough. If you need to talk to someone you can talk to me i have messenger.